A guy from school I had to block (Bye Felipe :) )

[SoulofanAggron]

Hi all, I thought I would show you the absolute gems I got last night (TW Male tragic attempts at sexual talk.)

This is someone I knew slightly many years ago. When he goes 'I'm not my sister' it's because we'd been talking about how his sister used to bully me.

I've blocked, but half thinking I should say something else about how not ok his behaviour was.

I would've been more assertive/firm but wasn't sure what to do at first as he's an old school 'friend' and I think he was drunk. But in the end I decided I had to block him as I don't keep potentially dodgy types around nowadays.

I would screenshot and post it on his feed.

@Hoppinggreen

Is “I want to fuck the shit out of you” What passes for a chat up line now?

Oh yeah, apparently a love island contestant told another one he'd like to do her in all her holes.. and she tittered bashfully in response.

[quote baileys6904]@candylebonbon By that theory, every case has to go to court to prove they're innocent.

I could accuse you of breaking into my house and shitting on my carpet. The police would investigate, realise the accusation was rubbish and drop the charge.

By you're theory, that's not enough, you still did it, but there was just not enough proof[/quote]
There aren't many women who'd wrongly, dishonestly accuse a man of letting himself into their house ... There are however quite a few dodgy, sleazy, chancer, predatory men around.

And his texts make him sound not unlikely to be one. Especially since he has never been involved with op and hasn't even met her in decades.

Anyone who paid no heed to that incident in his past would he very foolish.

I also find that when people get reported to police or arrested for doing something, it's rarely isolated.

Also the chances of letting yourself into the "wrong" woman's house are quite low, let's be real.

@SoulofanAggron

Does he have issues youre aware of? He sounds dangerous

@Jesskir89 It seems like he likes a drink a bit much maybe. He was never the brightest of stars. There was an incident where he 'accidentally let himself into the wrong woman's house' years ago, but I think charges were dropped.

Yeah he sounds dangerous

On more important matters; surely if he really has an 8 inch cockzilla, he'd have found a way to send a dick pic.

Someone like him would see it as a huge, no pun intended, selling point. Since presumably he thinks women are the equivalent of him.

When I saw this I immediately thought, this is a teenager or a very young person! 44! Yikes! How can he get to that age and not know that this is not how you go about speaking to women!!!

@Ceriane

When I saw this I immediately thought, this is a teenager or a very young person! 44! Yikes! How can he get to that age and not know that this is not how you go about speaking to women!!!

In fairness, would you want someone like this being able to hide better what he's like and what he's after?

It's a good thing he's so clueless.

How can he get to that age and not know that this is not how you go about speaking to women!!!

@Ceriane I have bipolar occasionally, so a friend of his (I'd not got off with this friend, just chatted to him as friends) had given him the false impression I'm a permanent nympho.

But I'd explained in a previous convo that that wasn't the case. And I think I made it clear I wasn't up for it early on in this incident.

I think he was drunk (and is a bit thick.)

@SoulofanAggron I'm bipolar and in the 28 years since I was diagnosed at age 23 I've had a total of 3 months (all at one time) that I've acted a bit 'nympho' ...

Men can be so stupid.

@noirchatsdeux Everyone's different but I've only had it a few times in my life as I'm relatively well-behaved with meds. I earned some notoriety one summer, when a private shrink put me on ADHD meds and I went as high as a kite.

@SoulofanAggron you're a better more forgiving person than me lol! Well done for blocking him he is an arse and you don't deserve to be spoke. To or treated like that. You're worth a million of him! Honestly idiot men never fail to amaze me!

Hi all, a friend said that when she had someone like this, phoning this much etc, she was advised by the police that it was harrassment.

I didn't know if that was right, but decided to report him just in case.

The police phoned him and gave him a stiff telling off. They claimed he was really embarrassed and he told them he was really drunk (not that I care) and that he claimed he sent me an apology the next morning but I didn't receive it as I'd blocked him.

Hopefully he won't do that to someone again in a hurry.

What a shame that the police do more about this than they do about rape from my experience of reporting it. Twice they didn't even bother contacting blokes that raped me.

@SoulofanAggron

I understand you were trying to be polite but please don't be if this happens again.

@Hidinginstaircupboard When it comes to 'x's, I get what you mean but I said 'In the middle of something. Sleep well.x' I took a while phrasing that one lol, it started out as 'you're drunk. Go and sleep it off.'

If it had been some random guy I like to think I'dve been ruder, it was just that I kind of know him and liked having his acquaintance-ship.

I'm still learning though, I used to be far worse at telling people to stop stuff.

His name isn't Craig is it

@Thesunshines No. There are a lot of them around unfortunately.