What is the worst thing your husband/partner has ever called you?

[Foward]

My stbxh is you effing c..t!

Mine calls me a cunt every day, but in a cheerful way 🙂. In fact he called me 'a completely dreadful cunt' only 5 minutes ago because I stole his secret Galaxy from his bedside table whilst he was making me a cup of tea. I don't even really like Galaxy, so it is perhaps true.

I just hate the word.

Mine used to call me Dragon. But not in a serious way, it was just a joke (I called him Gitface). Cunt isn't a word we used so I would have been very hurt and shocked if he had called me that - it's different if it's a term of endearment like the Galaxy thief above.

I hate that word too OP.

Yes if you don't mind that's fine but when you do & he knows it that's different. Very hurtful & undeserved. Thanks for replies.

Dragon is nice I could cope with Dragon

Stupid fucking cunty bitch.
Not sure why I am still here tbh!

I hate the ‘C’ word too! But then I hate swearing....

A bloody boring bitch. The most boring person in the world. Also a f*ng c*t.

Can’t believe what I’m reading. Dh once said a jumper I had did nothing for me. That’s the only negative thing he’s said to me since we met in 2001. Why are you with these horrible men? What’s the point? Rather be on my own.

Massive c*nt...seems there's a theme. Before him I had never been sworn at or shouted at really, came from a very polite caring background, so it still makes my heart pound when he erupts like that.

Ex husband had a wonderful backlog of words and that's one of the reasons that he's an ex husband! My lovely Mr has never called me anything mean or rude, not even in a joking way.

My husband has never called me names in 20 + years together. I wouldn't be able to love someone who spoke to me like that.

I was called a Boring Fat Bitch by my ex. Lovely!

I left my ex when he told me I dont deserve to be a mother , on mothers day .
Nice guy ...

I have nothing. Why would I stay with someone who abused me

First boyfriend said to an incredibly vulnerable, young teenage me: "it's probably because your so big and I've only ever been with skinny girls"

Because he failed to get an erection, ever. Therefore we never had sex.

Also I was 9st and 5ft 5 probably too thin at the time.

That stuck with my through my early 20s. Suffice to say, he never settled down and never seems happy and I'm with my lovely husband who loves me whatever size (currently pregnant with #2 add in some lockdown pounds).

But some people are right arseholes. And I'm also shocked how personal I used to take things too, definetly gained a thick skin as the years went by.

Ex used to call me degrading things in the bedroom, which I put up with at the time as I was trying to be "good giving and game".

I don't tolerate that crap any more.

He was never a name caller outside of it. I hope most of you are talking about exes as it's not OK to be verbally abused.

He’s never called me anything unkind ever 🤷‍♀️

Mine has never called me anything. I can't think of a single occasion where he has called me a name. We both swear a fair bit, but not at each other.

My ex called me A fat bitch and a stupid cunt. He also gave me a horrible STI from sleeping around and then told me I smelt like a dead body. Nice man !

@TheOtherBoelynGirl that's good and as it should be ..however the reasons are complex that women end up in these relationships and not something we willingly enter into .
Ex dp did not become abusive until I was vulnerable with pnd

A fat mess and an embarrassment! I was 7 months pregnant at the time.

Mine used to say things that sound innocuous but were deeply wounding, played on my insecurities & left their mark, even now, many years on.

Eg 'no-one likes you. You know that, don't you?' Followed by a list of who didn't & how he knew.

I got called a fair number of nasty things too, but I could cope better with those as 'words' than the awful gaslighting behaviour which I'm finally addressing with a therapist now but I doubt will ever really leave me.

@wewillmeetagain

A fat mess and an embarrassment! I was 7 months pregnant at the time.

💔 I'm so sorry. That's unforgivable.