What is the worst thing your husband/partner has ever called you?

[Foward]

My stbxh is you effing c..t!

We (DH and I) call each other names all the time. I think it’s more about the intent to wound than the word itself. There is never any anger or desire to hurt behind our name calling.

Dh has never called me a name like this, it’s not something you should put up with. It’s different if you’re both joking around obviously

Fucking bitch just like your mother. He's an XH.

For the record 'd'm was an abusive narcissist, just like her son in law

My ex used to constantly tell me I was mentally ill. Ironic when he was under a cpn at the time.

Nothing.
we've been together 28 years and he has never called me a name or said unkind things to me. he very rarely swears and certainly never AT me.

C* became like hello to me in the end. Worst thing he ever called me was an unfit mother... When I've raised DD single handedly on my own since day 1.
Needless to say I LTB.

I used to be called a nasty cunt by my ex whilst holding the baby. So thankful that part of my life is over.

First husband called me everything under the sun, bitch, c**t, slag, fat bitch whilst weighing 8st and 5ft 8, ugly cow, stupid and thick and many worse. 2nd called me several awful things. I have an eating disorder and obviously very paranoid and upset about my weight so when he wanted to hurt me more he would call me fat and words related to it. The next day I would be being berated for being bony and thin.

They say people take things out on the one they love.

I would never stay in such a relationship or say bad things.
I'd leave before things get that bad.
First sign of real trouble, I finish it.
In my view, when things go that bad, it is a sign things are never going to be solid.
My instincts usually serve me well.

DH and I call each other all sorts of horrible names but with affection! We've never done it in anger.

ExH once called a a 'stupid fucking selfish bitch' because I dared to put £10 of petrol on the car to see my father who I was told was dying. I left him 4 months later.

It has taken me nearly 30 years but I'm nearly out. He now calls our children names such as you effing prick etc. & sees nothing wrong with it. I find it unbearable. Looking forward to living in my own peaceful home soon

My ex said some mean things to me. I said some horrible things to him too which I’m not proud of. There was often alcohol involved. It makes me sad when I remember. He told me I said ‘you have everything I don’t want in a man’ one night after drinking. We were breaking up at that stage. I felt ashamed and apologised profusely. He took the apology as he could see how awful & shocked I felt. I felt horrendous, so I never drank that much again (I had had about 6 G&Ts with him).

He told me I was ‘so f**king disorganised,’ he told me I could ‘no longer pull off those leather trousers you wear’ after I rebelled & ate a bar of chocolate that he didn’t want me to eat (I bawled & he apologised), I once told him he was boring.

He once shouted at me over & over again ‘you’re not normal.’

When all the kind of thing starts to happen it's time to get out. I'm 49 now I hope I am getting out in time. It's taken years of preparation to get strong enough to do it & understand that we are just incompatible.

His ex partners name in bed, they had split up 2 years before we met, he is now a ex!

A retard and a spastic
Because I couldn’t deal with a situation where people had to keep coming to the house so he had to take time off (I have asd)

Between 3 of my exes I've had pretty much everything - fat, pathetic, mental, boring, sad, ridiculous, cunt, bitch, cheat, whore, liar, narcissist, friendless loser, insecure, stalker etc etc.

My current DP has never called me anything. The one time we fell out slightly all he could come up with was 'the grass in your back garden is shit'

Not a name or a swear word but 'I hope you drop down dead in the next 3 days'..

Very precise

Name calling can be very hurtful & damaging. I say alot of stuff under my breath.

Bumface, as a joke. I laughed, We do not call each other names for real.

My father called my mother a piece of shit, shitbrain and fucking shit-for-brains pretty frequently. She was the one he liked.

I once had "Nutter!" shouted in my face when I had PND.
Obviously he is now my ex husband

@Foward

It has taken me nearly 30 years but I'm nearly out. He now calls our children names such as you effing prick etc. & sees nothing wrong with it. I find it unbearable. Looking forward to living in my own peaceful home soon

Well done. My mother didn't leave so I spent my formative years (actually my whole life) hearing him calling her a shithead and piece of shit, then I was the piece of shit, the little bitch, the filthy turd and the one he was going to fucking murder.

I don't like shouty people. I don't think they're passionate or funny or idiosyncratic. I think they are weak, self-indulgent and really, really horrible to be around.

'Yes dear' always dripping with condescension.

Even 5 years after leaving him it's an expression that makes me irrationally angry and my friends still remember it.

I've had everything from..you fucking bitch..to slag,slut, whore, I've been dried up..like a sand paper up there ( expected me to be turned on just from the sight of his naked ass) years of abusive crap..even took me to court lied said I was a drug addict and I was the abusive one..and yet I still kept being sucked back in.manely because I adore seeing my DC happy and they adore him.

Cunt
Bitch
Miserable

Weird
Incapable of having a normal conversation
He's horrible to me every couple of days. Always feels like he's entitled to speak to me like crap to me because I've caused him to break a mug, or I haven't said sorry for something dripping water on the floor,