What is the worst thing your husband/partner has ever called you?

[Foward]

My stbxh is you effing c..t!

@Melange99 I learned after years of suffering that you are only trapped in your own head you don't have to stay but you have to actively change the situation. It takes courage & strength but you can do it. Have the conversation your life is worth more. Wishing you all the very best.

C**t,slag,slut,boring,retard!

Called me manipulative. He’s the one who cheated time after time

@Foward Thank you for your kind words. I decided to recall the post. It was all true but decided I didn't want it on here.

@janaus50s

Called me manipulative. He’s the one who cheated time after time

You manipulated him into cheating obviously! It was nothing at all to do with him being a knob.

Obviously I did. 8 years before I found out the extent of it. I shouldn’t have gone snooping. What about his privacy?

In past (abusive) relationships I was called every name under the sun so I told my DH when we got together that if we ever had a fall out/disagreement, I would really appreciate it if he didn't call me names and I wouldn't call him them either.

6 years on and we've never called each other a bad name.

My long gone ex's favourite was "stupid bint". I don't know why that is the one that has stuck with me but I can still feel a physical reaction to that phrase even now and it's over twenty years since we separated.

And he was keen to point out regularly that we had no friends and that was my fault. I'm unclear as to why I was responsible given that he was the visibly aggressive alcohol abusing volatile controlling twat in the relationship.

His best use of that particular theory was when he'd run the car until it was out of petrol (which he did often )and had to abandon it a mile from home. Then when he'd got a can of petrol into it it wouldn't start - I think because it had been run so low it couldn't pull the fuel through initially.

The car problem was unknown to me until he arrived home, slammed the front door nearly off it's hinges and said it was all my fault that we had no friends who would come and help with the car problem.

I walked down to where it was parked the day after, it started first time and I drove it home. Rather than being pleased he was annoyed that I'd managed to get it home and he hadn't. When he asked how I'd done it I said something like the car likes me better than you.

Three or four days of shit I took from him for that one comment.

That he’s totally committed to his gf (the mother of his child) who is just amazing. Probably doesn’t even know I exist in that way. But hey ho

He accused me of trying to kill him via heart attack because i stressed him out when i didnt do what i was told.

Then he called me a low life cheating whore, because he couldn't imagine WHY on earth i'd want to leave him unless there was someone else involved.

Then i was called a bad parent because i gained a social life once we'd split up.

I got called a fat ugly slag last night by my loving partner. Such a loving man, especially as I'm currently pregnant with his second child.

ExH called me a narcissist. Which was ironic given he used to tell me I was “mad”, it was “all in my head”, I was “nuts” about situations I suspected then later found out were true. It was appalling. Never again will I allow a man to call me any sort of name, even if it’s a supposed joke. There is truth in jest.

Hmmm my husband has never called names... I don't think this is nice or even normal

@bunny85 it's not normal but very common unfortunately.

I had an ex once who called me a gold digger which was hilarious as I was a solicitor and he was unemployed- I had to send him his train fare to come and visit me! Then I paid for everything on our weekends together. If I was a goldigger I was a pretty useless one!

Selfish.

I'm not.

Eg 'no-one likes you. You know that, don't you?' Followed by a list of who didn't & how he knew

Wow, that is vile!

DH has never called me a rude or offensive name. he used to call me Princess as a nickname which I never really liked. But nothing terrible.

A bad singer 🤣🤣🤣🤣 he calls me Hilda Ogden....
I don’t like the C word, neither does he.

"Of course i had an affair, you are always so miserable"- when i nearly died after giving birth to our child.
"You just dont like it because you dont understand it"- about a tv show I didnt want to watch
"Im so glad the kids dont have your nose:"
"Im so glad the kids arent ginger like you"
" why do you act like that?( when i was smiling and clapping) no one acts like that! You look ridiculous!"
" why do they put ginger kids in tv ads? They look hideous ! No one wants to see that!"
" youre too old to be wearing that"
Thank God hes my ex!

He is an ex but tamp, die of cancer, look at state of You, c**t, bitch, lazy cow even when the house was cleaned and he always had dinner and lunch cooked, I will utterly destroy you, effing this and that. Hence the EX good luck to any girl he has she will think she has found charming 🙄 I’m out now for 2 years and never will put up with that again. You are trash, you are council rubbish, his mum was until she fleeced both her ex husbands.

A manipulative bitch. I have never been spoken to like that in my life. I know I should walk away....but haven't got self esteem to leave and have 3 boys to consider.

Slut, slag, fat cunt, rape victim, psycho, used goods

Why do they think it is alright to speak like that?