Please help me - what do I do

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Can someone please tell me what to do, my and DH haven't been great. I'm not happy, he's good dad etc but inconsiderate and takes me for granted.

Ok I've just been on his iPad and his messages are there. I had a look, I don't know why but I did. He's been arranging to meet a prostitute. He's posted her underwear, I can't tell for definite if he's been but he's currently messaging her to meet tomorrow at 11.

Do I ring him now and tell him to fuck off or shall I wait to see if he goes tomorrow? I have her address so could get proper proof. But I think I already have enough proof, I also track him on my find friends. All the family are on, shall I catch him on that?

Seems the hysterical bonding is all about reconciliation which I don't want. I wasn't happy in the first place before I knew about the sex worker.

Don’t beat yourself up about it, see it as a last shag, at least it was enjoyable!
Many people have break up sex, it’s quite normal x

Ewwwww posting undies to a prostitute..Men are gross.Yes Namalt brigade I said it..Men are gross..Thank feck am single..Av had my own share of twats like these.Not anymore..The number of similar post I see on MN on a daily basis is alarming..

So Sorry you have to go through this..((Hugs)) to you.

Decree absolute today

Congratulations (so to speak) May life get better and better for you from this point forward

all the very best for your next chapter OP

How you feeling about it? There are no 'failed' marriages that end in divorce, it's the successful evasion of a miserable life in an unhappy one.

Hoping 2022 will be a good year for you

Well done for seeing it through.

Congratulations, and I'm so impressed you stayed strong and got free.

Well done you OP. Well rid.

Here's to the start of the rest of your life

Amazing, you have been very brave. Now onto a brighter and better future for you!

Well done you, better days ahead now, willing you forward

👏🏼

Onwards and upwards - wishing you lots of happiness

Well done OP

Oh thank god. I thought from your first posts that you’d end up staying with him. What a total shit to give out those excuses

Aw thanks so much guys, felt like abit of an anti climax last night being stuck in the house alone with the kids not being able to celebrate.

I feel relieved, free. I've not kept up with the threads but he's been obstructive and mean at every point

Well done OP. Onwards and upwards and soon you'll see the back of this awful year for you.

Well done OP you sound like an amazing strong woman and mother. Not everyone could have done what you did. You will be an inspiration to others who are going through this. You have your whole life ahead of you I hope it’s a glorious one! You’re amazing

Congratulations! X