He can't decide if he wants me or the other girls,walk away?

[Givemeoilinmylamp]

I'm dating ? Sleeping with? him.
We have been for 5 months now.
He has told me that he is also texting a few other women.
I'm driving myself into a bit of a tizzy.
I'm checking when he is online and I know he must be texting one of these other women.
When he was drunk last week he said "who would treat me better I wonder"
I know who these women are as he showed me them on Facebook.
So now I compare myself to them and check to see if he has liked any of their pics (sad I know)
What do I do ?
Do I walk away?
Before lockdown happened he went out for lunch with one of them (even tho I asked him not to go and come and see me instead )
It's really hammering my self esteem.
Do I walk away now? When it's only been a short time?

When he was drunk last week he said "who would treat me better I wonder

Bit ironic really, when he's treating you so badly. I'd tell him you want someone who treats you better and be done. Otherwise you'll be 1, 2, 5 years down the line and e won't have changed, but you'll have wasted that amount of your life on someone who doesn't care about you enough.

Why wouldn't you walk away?

I can't believe you even need to ask!

Why on earth didn't you walk away when this all started?

Here's your kick up the hole. Cop the fuck on, block the arsebiscuit.

Don't walk away OP, RUN.

His 'which one would treat me better' comment makes me sick. Tell him to go fuck himself and then work on your self-esteem and finding a man that's not a scumbag.

Sounds like my ex ... had no problem telling me if we finished he'd have no trouble finding someone else, presumably cos he was using OLD apps. True enough, he has no problem finding other people, keeping hold of them is his problem.

OP get rid, he sounds like a total self obsessed wanker, isnt considering what he can bring to a relationship, just what he can get from one.

Of course end it today! He is not worthy if he is playing you off against other women and wondering if someone would treat him better. Do you that shows he cares anything for you?

Dodge the bullet and find a decent chap.

I misses think in the sentence above. I was so cross i didnt check. He is an utter twat!

Find a better man who is confident enough to know what he wants.
He sounds so needy he would instantly put me off.

Walk away

Obviously you walk away. This is not a relationship! He is using you to make himself feel better. Tell him to F off and then block

When he was drunk last week he said "who would treat me better I wonder" Why the bloody hell aren’t you wondering the same thing!

This man is an absolute scuzz bucket. He is using you and he is using the other women he’s seeing. You didn’t accidentally apply for a series of Britain’s Most Eligible Batchelor’ (and if you had, it wouldn’t be this bloke!). He’s got you competing with each other. You’re all doing your best to be the most appealing to him. He’s having his cake and eating it, and when the most attractive prospect starts indicating that she’s had enough, he will get rid of the rest of you. And the ‘winner’ gets him as a prize.

If you do not fuck him right off, you are in for a horrible time.

If the way he's treated you hasn't made you run for the hills and think he's a gross prick, you aren't in a safe enough headspace for dating. You'll make decisions that are wrong for you and you'll be vulnerable.

I would focus on yourself before dating anyone else - look up the shark cage analogy and see if it is of interest to you.

WTF? Have some pride and run don’t walk! Why should he get to mess you about and rub your nose in it? It sounds like he gets a kick out of it.

Make up his mind for him.

@katy1213

Make up his mind for him.

This. Tell him to get stuffed.

Who does he think he is - the man with the golden cock?

Next slide please.

He sounds a right twat. You can do better. Just dump him.

Who needs this kind of hassle?.

Oh how good you'll feel when you take back control and dump him.

Omg how can you even want to be in his company? What an entitled idiot.

Definitely walk way. He's using you all.

Good grief, he is not worth talking about, never mind seeing,or wondering what to do about him.. Most people on here,would have a few good ideas what to do with him.

You need to raise your expectations in a relationship, you deserve much more than this x

Has he got a golden cock? Why are you sharing him with other women. Raise the bar and value you're self, I would get an STI check if he's sleeping with multiple partners.

God sorry to be brutal but get some self respect and dump him today. You are worth so much more than this prick.