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He dumped me and I sent begging texts ..what now?

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frostytheshowman · 07/01/2021 19:34

My boyfriend of 2 years dumped me.
He told me he met someone else,he has been texting her for months.
He did it by text.
Only after being distant and not coming over.
He stopped answering my calls and replying to my texts.
I sent him a long message asking why ? And how long ?
No reply
I sent another no reply
I sent another asking for a explanation telling him how hurt I was and just asking for a reason
No reply
Then he sent me a picture of a bunny and a pot and a laughing emoji
Then I sent another saying "I don't understand why you are being so cruel,I just wanted answers and you haven't even got the decency to do that.
No reply
How do I get some self respect back?
Make myself appear less crazy ?
Have I made a show of myself ?

OP posts:
Blondesnotbombs · 09/01/2021 20:08

Is this a J name by any chance?!

redfernsydney · 09/01/2021 20:10

Your texts are not unreasonable. he's a twat

midsummabreak · 09/01/2021 20:24

How do you get past the feeling that you are responsible for his behaviour?
You just don’t go there. We all deserve respect. Don’t entertain any such thoughts.

TheGreatSloth · 09/01/2021 20:30

What an utter shit. You are well rid of him.

No, you’re not a bunny boiler (unless you are actually sitting in his garden now eyeing up the rabbit hutch). You’re just a normal human being with normal human feelings. Those can’t be turned off and on like a tap.

You are normal, he’s a shit. That’s it. You have done nothing wrong! Please do not let this vile man’s poison seep into your mind.

Just block and delete, never contact him again (because he’s not worth 30 seconds of your time) and don’t blame yourself. Instead congratulate yourself on a lucky escape because this man is a sexist, cruel, immature dick. His new woman has caught an absolute toad who will almost certainly make her miserable.

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