Should I walk in to 2021 a single woman?

[TheDiceWoman1]

NC for this.
In a very up and down relationship and I've spent all of Christmas feeling stressed and low.
He doesn't trust me. Makes me jump through hoops. He said he wanted to see me today to have sex as it's his reassurance I won't be sleeping with anyone else tonight. Not that I'm going anywhere it's just deranged thinking. I'm on my period and he tells me I'm avoiding and delaying having sex. I have been bleeding since Tuesday and last had sex with him Monday.
He clearly is not happy just to spend time chilling with me.
He says I don't take it seriously how much sex he needs. I've tried to accommodate and I'm not prepared to have sex while bleeding. He's truly awful and I'm struggling to walk away. I don't want my new year to start like this.

Well done, OP. If you have any worries that he may actually attempt to harm himself, call the police and they will do a welfare check. Don't be blackmailed into responding to him. Happy new year

There is literally nothing in the world that will put me off having sex more than being told I HAVE to have sex! And I'm not sure of the legalities but being emotionally forced to have sex when I'm not in the mood is akin to rape as far as I'm concerned! Get rid. Block on both phones and move on towards a happier and healthier new you!

Thank god you've got rid OP!

If he turns up at your door don’t let him in, don’t even answer the door, don’t speak to him just ignore ignore ignore.

If you ever feel yourself weakening just remember, you were nothing but a shag bag to him. The whole relationship was all about him not you, just him. It was about his needs, what he wanted, what he demanded.

YOU ARE WORTH SO MUCH MORE!

You weren’t put on this earth to please him, or be abused by him or indeed anyone. You were put on this earth to please you!

Happy new year my lovely, may your 2021 be happy and bright for you xx

I think you should end the relationship. His paranoia is out of control and he is trying to control you. Good luck!

Hey lovely people, just coming back for an update!

I have started my new year exactly as I wanted it and it's staying that way. Feeling very free and much more relaxed. Best thing I've ever done for myself.

Thank you to everyone for your support 💕

I followed your NYE journey.
Glad your 2021is looking promising.
I so admire your bravery and resolve.

Woo hoo! So glad to read this update.

Excellent news! So happy for you. Xx

Delighted to read your update. Often people don't come back to tell the thread how things worked out - and I wonder/worry. So thanks.

Great to read. Thanks for updating