I think I am a home wrecker

[anoniem]

Hi guys,

I need some advice, and didn’t know where to turn - please don’t judge.

I met a guy online, we hit it off. Probably the first time I’ve ever felt at ease with a guy before. We have the same hobbies, he’s great.

Fast forward, I decided to do some snooping and found his LinkedIn, then his Instagram and now his Facebook.

He’s always said he was single, promised, literally asked him and he said he was, but his pictures says otherwise. Been in a relationship for 8/9 years, and married for 2.

I was sick, we met for coffee, had so much fun together, I’ve never opened up to someone as much as I have.

Now I don’t know what to do. He’s apologised, he’s said he was sorry, and that he always wanted to tell me, but was worried because what if I cut things off.

I just don’t know what to do. I really like him, and now I just feel stupidly vulnerable because he knows so much.

May seem like an obvious solution, but I just feel so drained from it all.

Message back

'Looks like you're going to be on a wee diet for a bit then. I probably should tell her, she should know what a scumbag she married and have a chance to get out before she's tied to you with kids.'

And - tell her. Because the above is true. Poor woman. I wouldn't be able to rest unless I tried to let her know somehow - two years is nothing, he's going to ruin her life.