I have two dc with my dh and we’ve been married 16 years. Dh has never changed what he does really, which pre dc was fine because I could do what I wanted too.
But he golfs every single Saturday - all day - and in the summer two or three evenings in the week as well. I’m no longer bothered about this as I’ve checked out of my marriage for lots of reasons. I just wondered - all those years I’ve put up with it (over a decade) is it a common thing?