What are three main things which are important for you in a man?

[bunny85]

Interested to know what other women think. Thanks!

Sexually attractive
Fun
Driven

Attentive
Good in bed
Employed.

Fun is a biggie. I want my next partner to be FUN FUN FUN! I want to laugh like a school girl & make him laugh too! Sleep would go down nicely now though!

Solvency, honesty, supportiveness

Personal hygiene
An active mind
Kindness

Honesty
Good Sex
Romantic

Honourable
Well mannered/considerate
Intelligent

Self control - someone who knows what is important and right, and does it. This encompasses loyalty and integrity.

Intelligent - someone who thinks deeply, is curious, reads.

Fun - I want to look forward to spending time together, affectionate, playful.

Kindness
Intelligence
Ambition

Amazing how important kindness is to so many of us. I feel sure that if you asked men what women want they'd never put kindness that high up the list.

Funny
Funny
Funny

Kindness
Integrity
Intelligence
Positivity and sense of fun
Ambition

Ok that isn't 3!

Competent all rounder
Hard working
Kind

Kindness
Honesty
Loyalty

That he makes me feel safe.
That he makes the world a better place, by being in it.
That we can read and write together

Loves me.
Emotionally warm rather than cold or mechanical.
Interesting to talk to.

Kind/compassionate
Even tempered (I cannot abide angry partners)
Successful

Someone I can properly talk to/relax with
Someone who isn't repulsive to look at
Someone who isn't a dick

Sounds simple - surprisingly challenging to find all three in the same person!

Has his own teeth!

Shared values
On the same wavelength
Capable

Ok am revising mine:

Loves me
Generous-hearted
Wise

@potter5
🦷 🦷 Good one

Honesty
Respect
Sense of humour

I find him hot and he makes me laugh.

Kind
Funny
Self sufficient in all areas

Similar to the other older posters, I’m now in my 50s and the top three things for me are

He needs to be gorgeous and sexy and able to win any disagreement by simply taking his shirt off. So he needs to be fit, healthy and active (but only activities we can do together)

Able to run a house, cook, clean, shop, without direction or management. I don’t need another child.

Solvent and good with money.

It took me a long time and a lot of heartache and money to realise this.