What are three main things which are important for you in a man?

[bunny85]

Interested to know what other women think. Thanks!

Not demanding / controlling / OK with me time

Not a heavy drinker

Empathetic, kind, a good person

IT expert
teetotal
Owns his own company
Has a driving license

Crikey, I am so shallow compared to most! My list is; great body, good in bed, funny. I’m nearly 50, self sufficient, so I don’t need anything else in a man 😄

Sense of humour
Kindness
Ability to accept me for who I am without wanting to change me

Emotional intelligence and availability
Kindness
Generous

Empathy- be compassionate and understanding

A good sense of humour- just to make me smile each day

Intelligent- I dont mean really intellectual just someone you can actually have a meaningful conversation with and can see other people's opinions without judging them!

And if I could add one of the most important ones to me; NOT ABUSIVE and will let me have a life of my own rather than isolated!

So basically the total opposite of the man I have my kids with. God if I could rewind time and go back to before I met my partner I would choose someone totally different than him and live a happy life. I dont care about money or anything like that just to be happy would be nice 😣

Supportive
Good morals
Interesting

Empathy
Respect for boundaries
Not lazy
(But also intelligent, creative, with good sense of humor, cultured/curious)

Loyalty
Hardworking
Good at cunnilingus

Kindness (that isn’t conditional)
Emotionally intelligent
Honest, even if that sometimes means painful conversations

Honest
Kind
Generous (as in helping others)
GSOH

I purposely put honest first, because I've met so many lying bastards

Honest/loyal
Kind
Good Sense of humour

Kind/empathic
Emotional maturity
A good sense of humour

My partner has all of the above and I was also looking for someone honest, self sufficient and personable. I feel lucky to have met him!

Just read the male perspective (other thread)

So have to add..

Sexual attraction..

Wealthy
Generous
Erectile Dysfunction

Ability to express and understand others emotions
Quick dry wit
Over 6ft
(and i'll sneak in a sense of adventure)

Family Orientated - loves his mum and family
Not a Tory/Brexiter/Trump Supporter/racist/sexist- has political views that align with mine.
Good with managing money

Loyalty
Sense of humor
Good looks

Truthful
Loyal
Emotionally/mentally healthy, so many men have issues due to past failed relationships.

Self sufficient
Loyal
Mutual attraction

Honesty
Empathy
Fidelity

Sense of humour
Honesty
Ability to talk emotions

Very wealthy
Very elderly
No dependents

But seriously...

Intelligent
Funny (not just GSOH, have to make me laugh like a drain)
Independent (neediness, jealously, lack of domestic skills are an absolute dealbreaker)

Intelligence
Same moral code
Good work ethic

My DP fits this perfectly, along with many other traits I desire in a man.
We're so similar my neighbour thought we were brother and sister .

Sharp wit and humour
Reliable
Intelligent

(Sexiness never goes astray either)