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What are three main things which are important for you in a man?

103 replies

bunny85 · 12/07/2020 18:48

Interested to know what other women think. Thanks!

OP posts:
SmartyPants0 · 12/07/2020 19:34

Integrity
Fidelity
Good emotional health

Chocolatefreak · 12/07/2020 19:39

Interesting choices! Priorities change as you get older. I didn't notice this so much in the beginning, but I would like my OH to have more of a sense of humour. Luckily, I've noticed my son's is getting closer to mine as he's grown older, which is great to have.

Things I'm grateful for in my OH:

  1. Tidy
  2. Cooks really well!
  3. Similar energy level to me

Can't have it all.

Pebblexox · 12/07/2020 19:40

Honesty
Sense of humour
How they treat their family

vixxo · 12/07/2020 19:45

Integrity, kindness, intelligence

MyLifeWTF · 12/07/2020 19:47

Trust, loyalty and honesty I know they are basically the same things but it seems like we have to be very specific with men these days 🤣

AgeLikeWine · 12/07/2020 19:49

Not being a dickhead
Not being a dickhead
Not being a dickhead

I had to audition a large number of dickheads before finding someone who complied with all three of my criteria Grin.

PenelopePitstop49 · 12/07/2020 19:49

Awareness.

Kindness.

Decency.

SirVixofVixHall · 12/07/2020 19:50

Kind, funny, clever.
And I include things like honesty under “kind” .

Raella50 · 12/07/2020 19:50

Positivity, confidence, work ethic

NaToth · 12/07/2020 19:51

No dope smokers
No nail biters
No fitness freaks

Gingerkittykat · 12/07/2020 19:54

Emotionally stable.
Has integrity.
Similar outlook on life.

Chocolate123 · 12/07/2020 19:57

Kind
Honest
Sense of humour

Chocolate123 · 12/07/2020 19:57

Kind
Honest
Sense of humour

FaceOfASpink · 12/07/2020 20:02

Good moral compass
Cracking sense of humor
Has a skill ie really competent at something.

GinWithASplashOfTonic · 12/07/2020 20:17

Gets me
Cooks
Good looking

Looking at that makes me feel really shallow.

seriousandloyal · 12/07/2020 20:35

Kind
Fun to be with
Loving

PermanentTemporary · 12/07/2020 20:40

Depends what for. I don't want a full relationship at the moment.

  1. Sexy hands
  2. High sex drive
  3. Well washed and reasonably cared for.
cosycatsocks · 12/07/2020 20:43

Kindness, intelligence, work ethic

tarasmalatarocks · 12/07/2020 20:51

Honesty
Even tempered
Good work ethic

Crumpets4butter · 12/07/2020 20:56

Kind and gentle, good at sex, good sense of humour

VaTeLaverLesMains · 12/07/2020 21:00

Humour, integrity, intelligence.

Africa2go · 12/07/2020 21:00

Attractive
Integrity
Compatability

flowerycurtain · 12/07/2020 21:02

Work ethic
Positivity
Loyalty

rvby · 12/07/2020 21:22

Humble.

Generous.

A goer.

heidihigh · 12/07/2020 21:24

Loyalty
Kindness
Intelligence

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