I need help I have kids scared to leave my partner

[lovemychildren27]

Hi everyone just looking for some advice or someone who's been in a similar situation I have kids and have been with my partner for a long time but I'm scared of him I no this isn't right but I don't no what I can do about it please if anyone can help me out thanks

PS. The safe housing is important but you're risking your life the longer you wait for the right moment. It sounds like he is coercive and controlling your every movement.

In the morning what can you do?
Could you discreetly call police
Ask them to come take him
Meanwhile get out and we can help on here with next steps ?

Speaking from experience if you email and email and sit and wait this a) can take forever and b) is too risky and not much may come out of it

You have 6 innocent kids

Poor you !! I feel for you
I remember the fear
Building myself up to leave
Then he would find out and start being nice
Or would follow not let me out of my sight

Boots is def a great option
Tomorrow is the day !!!!

OP you can also try Victim Support Live Chat it's 24 hours and you can try them anytime.

With a lot of phones you can call the emergency services to let them know you are in danger without speaking to them. Can yours do that? It’s worth checking in settings under emergency.
Then if he attacks you and you can get to your phone maybe in your pocket or something you can press the on then off button five times quickly and they will trace the phone and come round.

Yes great idea

I’m gonna try and get out tomorrow I have everything I need sorted so I’ve just got to try and get out I’m shaking with stress

Your doing so well and being so so brave.
Seek all the help you can from every agency and power going.
Let the school, police, social services, GP everyone know so that you can be protected as much as possible and there are as many different people working on solutions for you.
You can do it we are all behind you

Thank you

God you must be beside yourself with stress. That’s so shit that he’s coming with you everywhere.

Op I'm thinking of you and wishing you all the best today. You can do it!

Good luck op are you able to say what area you are in?

OP you are such an amazing, strong, brave woman and we are all behind you. Good luck. You‘ve got this!

Good luck op. I will be thinking of you. We are all right behind you. Never forget you are a magnificent woman.

Good luck OP
@Badmemorieshouse don’t Ask her where she is!

No, don’t say what area you are in!! Not even a hint.

Good luck sweetheart, your fear is palpable....everything crossed for you x

Thanks everyone just trying to act normal this morning so he doesn’t suspect anything not had any sleep so I feel exhausted

You can do this so many on here can help also

Keep posting
Remember to call police when you need to
Stay strong

You will be amazed at how much strength you have

I get the feeling you haven’t properly slept in weeks.

Please make sure that you protect yourself. You either need to call the police immediately when you are out of the house or from inside if you can't leave it. If you are at risk, don't slow yourself down or alert him to your plans by trying to take stuff with you. You can come back for it with a police presence.

Good luck, OP. Stay strong.

You can do this OP. Keep you and kids safe xx

You can do it

You def can
You have shown strength many times and the your happy peaceful life is around the corner

We are all here for you

OP you can feel your terror from every post. You are incredibly brave. Good luck. You have hundreds, if not thousands of women thinking about you. ❤️