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Should I tell ex I've given birth.

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saynomore · 12/06/2020 00:38

I'm currently separated from husband and have been throughout my whole pregnancy.
He hasn't made the effort to ask about the baby and attended any antenatal appointments.

My baby has been monitored every week due to some complications.
I have made the effort to inform him about the possibility of an early induction if things did not improve.
He hasn't checked up on me or the baby at all since then (few weeks).

I have my induction booked and I feel that it is his responsibility to stay in touch and check up on his baby.
I have decided not to contact him.

Am I being unreasonable?

OP posts:
Louise91417 · 28/06/2020 23:45

I wouldnt be telling him and i certainly wouldnt be feeling guilty..if there have been complications and he doesnt have decency to keep in regular contact to get updates what is the chance he'l even be there for baby..sounds like a twat..

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