What the fuck is this?? Does anyone have gmail and know anything about

[Helpmesolvethisahh]

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My and my husband going through a tough time due to trust issues. I look through his iPad I’m not even going to deny it. I see this... clicked on the link and apparently it’s the “best dating site” according to google

What is google ads? Could it be an ad he has accidentally clicked on? Or would he have to type this in to the search?

[blue30]

I have a wonderful girlfriend and don’t do anything dodgy yet my ads have been full of dodgy dating sites this week.

[Helpmesolvethisahh]

I have had a look this morning... yesterday while I was recovering in bed he was on “tube galore” lovely.

I’ve said I’m ok with porn whenever he’s working away or if I’m not in the mood but he’s literally on it while I’m downstairs with our 2 children. Yuk

[ConnieDoodle]

@blue30 i also got an add for a dating site yesterday on mumsnet!

@Helpmesolvethisahh what didnyou aay to him about looking at porn? Why did you feel the need previously to tell him youre ok with porn sites?

[RenascenceWoman]

Perhaps keep quiet for now and then you can keep checking the Activity. It's probably the thin end of a very thick wedge though. Porn escalates behaviour and desensitises "normal" sexual relationships.

[LiteraryType]

Agree with above, and collect evidence to ensure you are in a good position if it does come to divorce & financial settlement. Would he want his family, friends, work to know what he's doing? You haven't caused the breakdown of this relationship, he has, so needs to pay. Hard I know but why should you suffer? X

[blue30]

Yeah he has a problem there. You could confront him with something like “do you want all our friends to know I divorced you for being addicted to porn” but since this isn’t the first time odds are he’d fall back into it at some point.

[Onthedunes]

Does he have an I phone.
If so go to settings, scroll down to safari, click on it, then scroll down to the bottom and click on advanced.

This will show you all the website data, many do not delete this.

It looks to me he has been on this site but as others have said maybe by accident directed by an ad.