I've been stood up!

[battleroyal]

Just that & I am very angry and upset!

Back story, been dating the guy for the last 2 months, going out around twice a week but message every day etc. All was going well (or so I thought)
Tonight we were going to stay in, get a takeaway & watch a film but that was supposed to be at 7 and it's now 845!

He messaged me this morning, chatted a bit as usual & he said that he was meeting his friend for lunch & drinks but would be ready to see me at 7...

I have not heard from him since 4pm, i asked if he was coming here or me to his, no response.
I've messaged 3 times 😢

Sorry to hear this - maybe he lost his phone ? Had too much to drink ?
Give him another chance and if he does it again then you know what to do

Lost phone...accident...drunk. Stop messaging until you have an idea of what may have happened.

He's prob drunk from watching the rugby!

Three texts is enough. You have to wait for him now.

I hope he comes back to you with a good reason!

Yes, Probably more than likely drunk / still down the pub.

I won't send any more texts.
One was from this afternoon regarding location, the other two asking if he is ready / if he is okay..

I was thinking rugby + lost phone too.

Wait and see, OP.

If he's drunk that'd be the end of it for me.
He hasn't even had the courtesy to text.

If you can OP put your phone away and leave it for tonight likely he has had too much to drink but even so he shouldn't be disrespectful not to txt you or call to say he's shit faced and can't make it.

I would think that's so rude. And not attractive to get so drunk you lose your phone. I'm sure if he lost battery he could find a charger at the pub or message you on Facebook /instagram on someone's phone just to say he was delayed. I think it's shitty behaviour

Fuck him. Next!

Hope there’s a reasonable explanation OP, def wait for him to get in touch with you now though.

Did you call him?

2 months? Yeah fuck that!! NEXT!!

Pissed watching the rugby! Nope nope nope.

Oh here we go...

Just messaged, got in at half 4 and been asleep got 5 hours and just woke up.

Hmm.....

Sounds a bit flakey. How old is he?

Jeez OP in a way I think your update makes it sound even worse than if he was still out and too drunk to text (which would also be extremely rude when you had arranged to spend the evening together though). Did he get so drunk at lunch time he fell asleep for 5 hours? I'd be very disappointed/hurt/angry at this too, he doesn't sound at all reliable.

If he's 18-25, probably fairly typical. 25-35 - hmmmm, 35+ - loser.

Bin. He won't get any better!!

How old? Rugby?

He got wasted and had to sleep.

An auger of things to come. I'd dump.

I'd totally ghost him now. Waster.

He didn't fall asleep. He's been in the pub the whole time, decided that was the better option then staying in with a film but he can't say that and you can't be angry if he fell asleep? Right?

Bleh! Say, "Glad you're alright. Goodnight!" Then turn off your phone.

You can decide what's acceptable.

What unmumsymum said.