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How do you cope with a partner with very different political views??

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ToeNailSoup · 20/11/2019 14:30

I've NC.

Me and DP have broadly the same outlook on life and we're really happy together.

But, we have some fundamentally different political views. For example:

He's voting Tory in the GE. I won't be voting Tory.

He's said he'd have voted Trump if we lived in the US. I physically couldn't bring myself to do it.

He's in favour of a three-strikes and the death penalty approach to justice. I'm not necessarily against this in principle but I think such ideas rest on an assumption of equality of opportunity etc.

He has issues with 'scumbags' who don't work and rely on benefits. I have issues with complete cockwomble cunt billionaires who don't work and get rich off the labour of the working classes and pay no tax. These people don't bother him particularly as they don't affect his everyday life (apparently).

Anyway, I don't want to debate the rights/wrongs of each of our perspectives. My question is how do you deal with this? We try not talking politics but it's unavoidable. Or we talk politics then get annoyed at each other. Or we talk politics then agree to disagree and both end up frustrated.

If you're in this kind of relationship, tell me how you cope!!!

OP posts:
DBML · 22/11/2019 07:14

@pallisers @TurOlive

Clearly neither of you read my post properly as no I don’t like Trump just as I didn’t like Obama. But if someone tells me they vote for Trump or Obama, I accept that, as both have good and bad points and it’s not for me to try to persuade people over to my way of thinking. I’ve met both types of voter (I spend a lot of time in the states) and they have all been very nice. Their political views are actually incidental, because the way they treat me and the people around them is kind.
Now if you want to write people off because of a political belief then fine. But op has clearly said she doesn’t think it’s worth LTB, so nice for her to hear all our points of view is it not? And JC - look at his past...certainly hope you don’t vote for him 😉
Thank you for a pleasant debate both. Back to the grind now.

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