Not that I'm bothered I'm just curious as to why he would do this...
We were together for 4 years when we were in our 20's (I'm now 44 and still single), lived together for most of that time. He was a sh!t to me though and would often turn off his phone and disappear on benders, was a serial womaniser and I caught him cheating on me twice - the second time I up and left but he didn't want me to leave; he moved the other girl in the next day and now they are married with 3 kids. We split up 17 years ago and I cut all contact with him shortly afterwards as I was really angry with
Him. It took him a long time to come to terms with as he continued to contact me for 18 months afterwards and finally gave up when I sent him a strongly worded email.
I've remained single for the most part since. I sometimes look at exes profiles on Facebook out of curiosity and boredom, including his and his wife's. I have no intention of ever contacting them and will go to my
grave having never contacting him again. However, I suspect he also checks my profile out as well. A few years ago I changed my profile picture to one showing I was 6 moths pregnant (used a sperm donor). After no contact for 15 years he sent me a message a few weeks after this picture was put up. I ignored him. A few weeks ago I couldn't find him on FB but when I checked from my mums page I found him no bother - he'd obviously blocked me!! Then a few days ago the same thing happened on his wife's page - she's blocked me too!
Now I'm not upset by any of this. I find it quite laughable. But why would he do this? I haven't contacted him for 17 years and have no intention of ever doing so!
Any opinions please?
Thanks x