I think my partner has joined a gay man's pick up site

[CatsnRabbits]

Just that really - I feel sick... I've just gone on the computer and his email was open, he has received a message from a site called fabguys. I'm at home today and picking our daughter up soon, he will be home at 5.30. I don't know what to do.

Been thinking about you all day OP

💐

Lots of strength OP

Hi xx Thinking of you xx

Awful. Hope you are managing

Been thinking about this thread and hoping you are OK, or at least as OK as you can be in these circumstances.

I'm worried about this OP too. I really hope she's ok.

Oh god op i’m so sorry. Don’t let him tell you its nothing, or that he’s just joined it to ‘look’.
He’s at fault here

Hi @CatsnRabbits. Although it was almost 8 years ago, I have been in the same situation. If my memory serves me right, it was also the same website. Please feel free to PM me if you wish, I found the whole ordeal very traumatic and still struggle with the impact to this day. I can talk you through a sexual health check and obtaining an emergency HIV screening. It is really important that you do this. I’m so sorry another person has been deceived like this. I hope you are ok.

SunKissedCherry I am so sorry you went through this too. Sending hugs.

@CatsnRabbits hope you're as ok as you can be. xx

Thinking of you OP x

How are you OP? You're not alone.

I keep coming back to this post to see if your Ok, it's such a bloody awful secret to have discovered. I hope you are k OP and getting support from friends xx

Hope you are ok op. X

Hope you are ok OP...just know you didn’t deserve this xxxx

I won't ask if you are ok, experience assures me that you are far from it.

Be prepared for lies that will spin your head. The best advice I can give you is to end the marriage immediately, I didn't because of the DC and I don't recommend that.

Thinking of you op

How are you today OP?

I hope you are ok OP.....you've gone quiet

Any news op?

Are you ok, OP? Did you manage to talk to your husband?