Help!!!! Naked pic on my husbands phone

[Sesicilana]

My husband was just on his phone and I noticed picture of boobs so I straight away asked what is it and that I wanna see it. There was a message “my boyfriend gave me your number how are you” and pic of breast. My husband replied “great boobs. How have you been?” no more conversation. He is trying to tell me it was just random stranger and he has no idea who is it. Thoughts - I am pretty upset, but his cold and casual responses made me think I overreacted . Your thoughts??

If it was a random stranger he wouldn't have replied.

Why did he reply?

The sentence how have you been is making me think they know each other, but why would her boyfriend gave her my husbands number?

You don't ask how you've been to a total stranger, you ask who they are.

He's cheating

That is so weird. Have you tried searching the number, it could be a sex chat thing maybe?

could it be a premium message service?

He didn’t show me for long enough. I was so in total shock I don't remember the name or number

It’s obvious that he knows her , why else would he ask how she has been . If he didn’t know her he would have said ‘how are you ‘ . Either way it doesn’t look good.

I think it was kik or messenger or what’s up or something - there was her picture in circle on top of conversation

My first thought was he's on a swinging site

*who are you , not how are you

I don’t know what to do now? Should I go ask him again why he said “how you been”

The swinging site would actually be possible - he is dreaming about having group sex

Sounds like some kind of swinging thing to me. Maybe her boyfriend is into watching her have sex with someone else or something

I just don’t know what to do now 😓 pack his backs tomorrow? Ask him to show me his phone properly? (I would hate doing that)

What a liar he is.

'Great boobs' is not something a husband should say to anyone but his wife- especially not in response to a pic of naked ones.

'How've you been?' people don't say to strangers, they tend to say it to people they already know, otherwise it doesn't make sense really.

The opening message reminds me of tacky phishing texts I used to get all the time.

I was an early 20’s hetro female so needless to say I didn’t want pictures of ‘sexy’ women 🤔 had to change my number in the end.

Go back to him and say I want full access to your phone

If he refuses tell him to leave

I'd be tempted to tell him either he tells you the truth right now or to leave

Although he's clearly shady, sorry op what a shock xx

Kik is like, well know for being the cheaters app

Facebook has circles.

My boyfriend gave me your number ?! That's weird.

He is such in communication I’m worried I’ll leave it and 30years down the line he will
Still be happily cheating I won’t even know

Would you be ok with him taking part in group sex ? If not then he is way out of line, I would definitely ask him to explain.

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I wondered about phishing texts. They are still around! The idea [so I am told] is to draw the other person in to extract money

If it was a phishing thing he should be ok with showing you the message.