Help!!!! Naked pic on my husbands phone

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My husband was just on his phone and I noticed picture of boobs so I straight away asked what is it and that I wanna see it. There was a message “my boyfriend gave me your number how are you” and pic of breast. My husband replied “great boobs. How have you been?” no more conversation. He is trying to tell me it was just random stranger and he has no idea who is it. Thoughts - I am pretty upset, but his cold and casual responses made me think I overreacted . Your thoughts??

Check emails/website history/stored websites and passwords

but why would her boyfriend gave her my husbands number?

Because if they're on a swinging site, the men have probably been messaging and his gf is now to decide if they meet or she's a 'hot wife'

Hmmm... you want him to leave but don’t want to upset him asking to see the phone? Good luck with that

I've never in my life had a phishing message with pornograohic images! What the hell are previous posters doing to get these?

Op he's a cheating lying twat, get rid!

GeneHuntLover ?

Yes you may use Kik for online dating but why would a married man have it on his phone?!

Is this for real?

He said perhaps you should go to bed?? What did you say to that? Did you ask if he had lost his mind??

Who is the random woman’s boyfriend that he had your partner’s number in the first place?

I’m actually thinking I’ll Leave it for a month - pretend I’m ok and then I’ll
Create a fake facebook trying to hit on him and see his response - thoughts? Would it be bad?

What if he is not doing anything and hates me for going through the phone.

OP, he has done something. He complimented another woman’s breasts and pursued a conversation with her. That was an act of infidelity. When you questioned him, he told you to go to bed.

He is cheating and taking you for a fool. Show him the door.

That message doesn't make any sense, who sends a picture of their boobs with a message like that?

Facebook OP? I think you'd have more luck on swingers sites

I found out my husband had been cheating via his phone - I had been told some information a couple of days before hand and I knew he’d lied about who he was with, I bide my time and looked at his phone, ( he had changed his password from each time I’d seen him) there were lots of other markers that I couldn’t tie up until I had this proof of messages on his phone. Your husband is going to be on his guard at the moment and possibly deleting any incriminating evidence - bide your time and see how he’s acting etc....

He's on a swinging site

Ewww at him wanting group sex.

Then he tried to send you to bed? Good grief.

My god, why do women put up with this shite? Are you really so scared of being single?

He’s up to no good. He’s told another woman that she has great tits. When caught red-handed he suggested you run along to bed

And your response is to live a lie for a month and then try and trick him into showing his true self again. At which point you will no doubt put up with it again.

Raise the bar fgs.

I wish it would just be easy. I have no family in the UK. I work only 16hours a week. The house we live in is his. If the circumstences were different I would tell him to pack his bags

If you haven't got kids together, leave him

@GeneHuntLover Looks that way.

We do have a child together

I don't understand how you can just let this go and not speak to him properly about it. If there is nothing to hide then he would let you see his phone and work out where the message has come from not just send you to bed!

@genehuntlover Yes i changed the name - is it a problem? When I signed up it randomly gave me the previous one - but I noticed that after I posted first thread

@MuttsNutts

What you said 100%

Why torture yourself for another month with this cheating twat?
Trust what you saw.