Help!!!! Naked pic on my husbands phone

[Sesicilana]

My husband was just on his phone and I noticed picture of boobs so I straight away asked what is it and that I wanna see it. There was a message “my boyfriend gave me your number how are you” and pic of breast. My husband replied “great boobs. How have you been?” no more conversation. He is trying to tell me it was just random stranger and he has no idea who is it. Thoughts - I am pretty upset, but his cold and casual responses made me think I overreacted . Your thoughts??

Well last time he asked about it I explained to him we are not ready and he can’t do that!

Could her "boyfriend" be like a pimp or something and your DH found this woman through him? If it was a stranger whose text he was not expecting i don't think he would ask "how've you been?". Given that she had to explain how she got your dh's number i wouldn't have thought he has cheated on you with her yet, but was probably planning on doing so in the future. I am so sorry you have to go through this.

@Sesicilana, you shouldn't have to explain yourself 're why you're not ready to do that. If you've told him that, and he's STILL done it regardless, - what the actual fuck is he playing at?

So we haven’t spoke in two days. I’m so in love with him I’m scared to start the conversation - I know I should leave him him not even apologising or trying to make us talk again is even worse than the actual incident

@Sesicilana you need to just get it over and done with before you let it go to far. The more you bottle it up the more and more your going to think about it and have it going around in your head what he's been up to. I hope your okay. Love is a shit thing in situations like this but you need to know the truth for your own mentality xx

@BumWad

Yes you may use Kik for online dating but why would a married man have it on his phone?!

I DON’T use it for online date, cheating or shagging around.

I, and plenty of others, use it to chat on it’s great for chatting and great for creating groups. ALL non sexual/dating.