I had a c section and with no friends nor family to help my DD had to stay with her DF. Her grandmother was around too ,( and she has very questionable behaviour)
In the past week my DDs great grandmother was admitted to hospital with just a few days left to live
I had my DD overnight for the first time in two weeks and she's been saying the following:
1- it won't matter if my great granny dies as my granddad has promised me to get the money I'd usually get from her.
2- she went back to not being mindful about people being around her ( her granny is that way) and as a result she kicked me in my c section scar. (she's a big 9 year old).
3- went back to lying when she doesn't understand something I say and just replies "I don't know". I don't know myself why she sometimes doesn't understand what I say
4- she didn't go trick or treating ( she wanted to) because granny doesn't like going knocking on doors.
Unfortunately as I can't do the school runs by myself she'll be under their care for a few extra days.