pc ignoring him is obviously working. Keep up the good work. That was a tiny glimpse of what he has to come - he needs to go through all this and work it out for himself. And he's starting to by the look of it.
Loving the facebook changes btw
Tanee try not to let him go without talking - if only to get it off your chest. But, having said that, I'd still go to the dress rehersal if I was you as well. Don't do anything you might regret. At the end of the day, you'll never regret giving it 100% and putting everything you have into trying to make it work.
If he doesn't give that back to you, then he will have to live with that guilt in the long run.
I'm not excusing his behaviour at all, but try to tell yourself that things are so much worse with him just about to go off (knowing how he usually gets at this time), so maybe this isn't the right time to do anything much...
This isn't making sense... basically, if I were you, I'd try to talk to him just so you don't have it all bottled up inside you for 2 months, but I'd still go and see the rehersal, visit him as planned etc...
and then when it is over and he's back home, use that as a time to really have all of this out with him and make him understand what he is putting you through and how it makes you feel.
I bet he wouldn't even take it in now anyway would he?
I know how frustrating it must be for you. I wish I had a solution for you!
macd you are amazing - how you cope with what you are going through, holding everything together for the sake of dd, the finances, the OW and the baby, and on top of that having to see them and bump into them... I think you're an absolute star.