Yeah, he’s cheating on one of you.
My boyfriend of a year went overseas on a European tour and then suddenly I lost access to his photos on Facebook.
I had been stalking all the young girls he met on tour (just their names). After he blocked me I went and looked at one of the open profiles. There was one girl who was tagged in a bunch of photos with him half dressed, his arm around her - couple type photos which he had taken because he had a really good camera. He blocked me thinking I would never see these photos.
So I accepted a date with someone else.
A few days l before he was due back in the country, he called me & said “how’s it goin’?”
I was busy trying on a new outfit for my date. I said I would call him back.
When I did I asked if he had cheated and he said “I haven’t cheated yet” - he basically told me he would cheat if he had an opportunity as it was all my fault because we hadn’t had enough sex before he went overseas.
I was with him for a year and he didn’t want to make anything Facebook official, didn’t want me to meet his friends because “they don’t want to even know you”.
There was not one photo of me on his Facebook.
Yet, the cheap asshole wanted me to collect him from the airport.
I never spoke to him again.
He said everything to me to pull me in, told me he saw a future with me, loved me, wanted me to meet his family.
But when his dad stayed over his house I was not allowed to meet him.
This guy is using you. He has lied to you - no one does that - has someone hack their Facebook and put them in a relationship.