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Third (and final) thread - C nonsense

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JaysusWept · 21/09/2019 21:59

Unbelievable that this is the 3rd thread and still nothing has been resolved.
I wasn’t going to start this one but if anything good comes out of this shite it will be a Glasgow/Scotland MN meet up!

I know folk laugh at all the ‘DAILY MAIL MAY NOT USE THIS’ stuff, but here’s me giving the scummy DM permission to use this 👋

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Blanca87 · 26/09/2019 13:49

They are going along with it because they are mean girl, cunts. Leave the roasters to their toxicity. Honestly, they will turn on each other soon enough. These picks always do.

BiMum5 · 26/09/2019 13:56

Jaysus, they are choosing to believe her. Which means they never were friends because had they been real friends they would have taken the trouble to get to know you and know that you'd never do such a thing. At least you know that now. It's normal to feel grief for a friendship but you're missing an illusion of friendship that isn't the same thing at all. You rock and they're the ones that are missing out. Miserable bitches.

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JaysusWept · 26/09/2019 13:59

I really thought things would have been in someway resolved in this third thread.
Instead it's just been me posting variations of seeing them and grey rocking.
Although, I guess that may be the only resolution that I ever get. They've shown what kind of friends/people they really are, and I may have 3 more years of ignoring them at the school gate to get through, until kids go to secondary school and all this shite can be done with!

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valleysareus · 26/09/2019 14:08

Can your daughter walk home on her own at any point in primary school or can she walk out and meet you at the end of the road?

SmellMySmellbow · 26/09/2019 14:09

Well I think there may be some more developments from her DH's side. Since your ex confronted him he's not been seen, right? Will be interested to see how he reacts when he sees you or your ex. Karma will get them, and I'm willing it to work fast on this occasion.

birdseeder · 26/09/2019 14:10

Please post one of these thru their letter boxes...

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AryaStarkWolf · 26/09/2019 14:11

Can your daughter walk home on her own at any point in primary school or can she walk out and meet you at the end of the road?

The OP has done nothing to hide from, why should she?

AryaStarkWolf · 26/09/2019 14:12

Since your ex confronted him he's not been seen, right?

Maybe C has "kicked him out for lying" again Grin

valleysareus · 26/09/2019 14:14

The OP has done nothing to hide from, why should she?

Did I say she had?

My children's school can walk home on their own from year 6 is they have the parents permission. Saves the OP the hassle of worrying about doing school runs.

RunningOutOfCharacte · 26/09/2019 14:14

See I think cuntaline may all have been a red herring.

I mean obviously she is a bitch. But because it all started with her we've assumed she's the worst of the coven.

She was making a bitchy comment. You don't do that unless you know it's going to be received well (otherwise you just look like the bitch that you are)

But all unfriending you. I mean it's pathetic really. I can't believe these are grown women. They've all shown their true colours.

I think c might actually be batshit. But the others are doing something far worse. They're knowingly colluding in excluding you (and dd) without the excuse of being a complete narc.

Oliversmumsarmy · 26/09/2019 14:16

The problem with these type of women is they have a need to talk about a group member behind their back.

I doubt they could just be friends without the bitching.

You are now out of the picture so when their little games start to bore them , one of them will know what it is like to be you and have to deal with the batshit behaviour

Strawberrycreamsundae · 26/09/2019 14:17

What a coven of bitches, they richly deserve each other and whatever karma awaits them.
You're infinitely better off without them OP

stephf72 · 26/09/2019 14:17

I agree that she must’ve told the others in the group something to make them believe it’s true. Also that they may have been discussing you in an unsavoury manner for a while. I think you said right at the beginning c had been off with you for a couple of weeks.
I don’t know if you’ll ever get to the bottom of it.
It’s such a head fuck when this happens. I genuinely believed my c was my friend and the group around her didn’t all act as your friends have done at all. One in particular made a real effort to try and maintain the friendship and I admire her hugely for that.
To this day I don’t believe my c made up the lies, she was the mouthpiece and someone else close to her dropped the poison into her ear. This person had a genuine desire and motive to put an end to our friendship. But hey, she chose to believe it, and could never really have known me if she thought me capable of such things.
It might sound nuts but I can look back now without anger and still think we had some incredibly funny times that I won’t forget.
I know it hurts at the moment op but you’ve been fab. Things will get better - Flowers

lololove · 26/09/2019 14:24

If you go into messenger and click on your picture at the top left hand corner you open settings. Go to "active status" and turn it off and they won't see when you're online /checking Facebook etc in the future.

What immature children they really are. I wonder if she told them she'd unfriended so they all followed too?

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Flossdancing · 26/09/2019 15:23

They really are pathetic arent they?! Hopefully youve got some exciting things booked over the long weekend to keep you and your DD occupied and not give a second thought to these nob heads. I think grey rock is the way forward, if you get direct questions from people just be honest that you havent a clue whats going on. If i saw the H again id fill him in completely and ask if was he aware his wife was spreading these rumours about him?? Extra points if hes stood waiting at school with Cuntoline to watch her face change as you tell him Flowers Grin

Grumpelstilskin · 26/09/2019 15:28

@RunningOutOfCharacte That’s a really good point. That initial errant text quite clearly showed that bitching was going on for a while. It is more than likely that this included the others to make Cuntaline feel so emboldened. K actually appears the most toxic and duplicitous out of that shower of shits. She actively contacted you, divulged information that was hurtful and seemed to want fan the flames of the drama. Not to mention the equivalent of the virtual stinky-finger with her FB check in at Cuntaline’s cocktail hour. I am really glad that you decided to be cautious pretty early on. As for deleting you on FB, such passive-aggressive twattery and shows some real anger about you not playing their insidious game. Anyway, it’s like the trash taking itself out. Really glad that DD isn’t affected by at, at least for now. Keep on rocking the Grey. I hope for your sake that there aren’t any dramatic updates but those Mofos seem to be gagging for a reaction.

Euromillsplz · 26/09/2019 15:30

I've followed this from the start.
Have read almost every comment (unusual for me!) but skimmed through a bit lately so sorry if it's already been said- but to me it's clear they've seen this thread.

Good.

I echo the thousands of other comments stating how dignified you've been in the face of such hideous immaturity.

Others WILL catch on, if they haven't already. Just keep on doing what you're doing. Believe me- their husbands will be secretly (or not so secretly) ashamed and cringing about their silly little girl-wives.

I suspect that's what started all this in the first place- your genuine decency shining through, putting them to shame.

Glad your exH has your back. (Even if he's mostly a dick). Just goes to show- they're way lower than him even!!! Go them.

To the overgrown schoolgirls- it's time to grow up. Teach your daughters some grace before it's too late and they end up like you.

Karma is a fucking bitch. Good luck Halo

32ndofFebtober · 26/09/2019 15:30

If you do see them looking over at you, try giving a knowing smirk without making eye contact.

ChuckleBuckles · 26/09/2019 15:43

Has your EX asked C husband about being chucked out of the house OP? Preferably in front of an audience of non involved bystanders that can back up the answer he gave?

PotatoShape · 26/09/2019 16:17

Ooooh, if the gaggle of harridans are reading this then I hope they are thoroughly humiliated that their behaviour has been seen for the childish mess that it is by so many others.
Time to grow up.

beatriceprior · 26/09/2019 16:26

There will be a falling out in that little group soon between the four of them. I bet you.

They will carry on talking about it and I guarantee one of them will say something about C Lying to one of the others and it will get back to her.

Then another one will be talked about and pushed out.

Even if that doesn't happen that won't be a nice group to be part of. They will all be aware of what C did and what they did to facilitate her behaviour and very aware it could happen to them. They will be walking on egg shells shitting themselves incase the same happens to them.

Gang of nasty bitches. You are well rid OP.

Xx

DuckbilledSplatterPuff · 26/09/2019 16:26

Ah Jaysus... keep going, you will get through this and it will die down. The irony is, they cut off Whats App, now facebook..which again I think was a total provokation, but really they've been feeding the beast by contacting you and posting photos of them enjoying themselves etc.. lazy but that's how they kept this all going. Now they have themselves cut off the oxygen of access to contacting you or gleaning information about you. All they can see is you calmly collecting your DD in the playground and even their silly posturing and sniggering hasn't any effect ( to them or onlookers anyway).. So they are starving themselves now. Hopefully this will helpit all die down quicker. And BTW they all know the messages and everything is a complete crock..
Ever seen Trump at a Cabinet meeting where each one in turn has to say how great it is to know him and work for him. That is C to the life.. they all have to pay homage and suck up to her and you are too independent minded. Good on ya gal! Their stupidity will catch up with them in the end.

Happyandglorious · 26/09/2019 16:55

I am honestly so upset for you @JaysusWept.
I keep checking hoping that the tide will have turned for you. I know it doesnt help day to day but you have an ocean of supporters in internet-land if not in real life. I hope somehow things start to get easier.

Skyejuly · 26/09/2019 17:01

I agree shit will hit the fan with someone else and they will regret it xx

ChimpyChops · 26/09/2019 17:04

Assholes.
The lot of them.

I have no words. How adults act like this is beyond me.