Third (and final) thread - C nonsense

[JaysusWept]

Unbelievable that this is the 3rd thread and still nothing has been resolved.
I wasn’t going to start this one but if anything good comes out of this shite it will be a Glasgow/Scotland MN meet up!

I know folk laugh at all the ‘DAILY MAIL MAY NOT USE THIS’ stuff, but here’s me giving the scummy DM permission to use this 👋

Why would you send this to the school there’s been some absolutely terrible advice on here that might pip the post

I have just read through the saga.
This woman is a vile, manipulative bully. And they are always such plausible liars. I agree with Lucifer's advice, and suspect that another of her coven will be her next victim. I hate it when people use social media to bully and isolate people.

You can opt to not receive notifications on FB without unfriending them BTW.

@category12 all you have in common is pushing out a baby at the approximately the same time

So true.

If you want to get rid of a sociopath becoming boring and they'll find someone else to pick on.

Your quiet dignity is commendable, OP, and any right-minded woman would be proud to have you as a friend.

I suspect the unsavoury coven have been briefing against you for some time. Were you the only single woman in the group? If so, it's probable that one of them is convinced that you were out to steal their husband from under their nose... there's always one.

Keep rocking the grey but formulate a back up plan. My concern is that they see you as vulnerable and, ime, when a bully believes they have the upper hand they don't stop tormenting their victim until they are forced to do so.

I suggest you keep a kickass cease and desist letter to hand ready for despatch to Cuntoline at the first sign of any further nastiness. This letter should be cc'd to all of the coven members, the husband in question, and to that invaluable asset, namely the gossipmonger who approached you at pickup last Friday. I would also suggest you print out instructions for retrieving Facebook messages and attach a copy to every letter you send out.

KOKO and resign yourself to the fact that literally hundreds of mumsnetters want to see the bitches kicked into touch are emotionally invested in your welfare and wellbeing and there may be need for a fourth final final thread.

Aberdeenshire here. Just wanted to send love and say you’ve been treated awfully & if you arrange a Glasgow meet up, I’ll travel!

I can’t seem to find where the playlist suggestions started, so apologies if this has already been suggested.

Even though I despise the woman singing it, I always find blasting out Lily Allen’s “Fuck You” therapeutic.

I think apart from the 2nd verse, all the words could be aimed at these bitches!

So the head teacher is going to sit and read through almost 3,000 posts repeating variations of ‘you sound lovely and they’re all cunts’, and then do what, exactly? Call them all into her office and give them detention? Print edited highlights in the next school newsletter?

THIS ^

Unless s/he has nothing else to do, of course.

When she does this to one of the others and they come crawling back to apologise , you know what to do

Hope pick up goes without any drama.

*drop off and pick up.

I've read all of the threads. Op you are doing amazing.
From experience as a single mum I know that some women find you as a threat. I was one for 4 years and lost so many friendships. Well I thought at the time that's what they were!
Please don't stop updating and taking support off here, it can be a lonely place to be.
If they've found this thread I'm hoping they read through it all and are ashamed of themselves!
Stay strong and dignified x

Hi OP,
I've experienced similar issues over the years and it's especially difficult when kids are involved. The apple often doesn't fall far from the tree.

I've found reading this very calming and therapeutic during times of stress. And remember, this too shall pass - I'll keep my fingers crossed for your daughter.

@Justsaynonow That is brilliant!

@NameWithChange

Years ago, I printed it out and put it on my bulletin board. My family often hear "what would Paul say?"

I have saved it too, thank you just it is very good advice. Esp for op at the moment.

Me, too NameWithChange

Thank you.

I have been following all your threads and I'm disgusted at this playground bullshit they have all subjected you to. As mothers what kind of example are they setting their daughters that this kind of blatant victimisation is ok. I think you have held yourself tremendously throughout it all and a lot better than what I would have done.

As others have said you are best of staying well clear and should any of them contact you for gossip etc I would send them the following link

So lovely all the pp who are local to you that have offered met ups etc.

@Ginmel Softzilla was a troll?!

I've read the threads and I think the response to give if asked is what @GeneParmesanPrivateEye suggested at 22:52 yesterday. If you're not asked, don't offer anything. Hope your DD comes out of this unscathed.

Here's another stress reliever. When you read it, try to be calm and relaxed and maybe have some soothing music playing. Read each sentence slowly....

Picture yourself near a stream.
Birds are singing in the crisp, cool mountain air.
Nothing can bother you here.
No one knows this secret place.
You are in total seclusion from that place called the world.
The soothing sound of a gentle waterfall fills the air with a cascade of serenity.
The water is clear.
You can easily make out the face of the person whose head you're holding under the water.
There now, feeling better?

Hi all. I wondered when the troll stuff would start.
I'm sure if people have concerns then they will report to MN. MN can see that I've been here for years, and if I were a troll then I've been playing a long bloody game to only start now. And, seriously, what a completely boring and mundane subject to want to troll about! I'd like to think that I'm creative enough to have come up with a more gripping topic than some bitchy mum's!

Thanks for the playlist suggestions! I'm making a Spotify playlist especially for the school runs. At pick up today, I fully intend to get there as late as possible, have my headphones in and grey rock.

Jaysus ive stated that on the thread theyr4 ejust a bunch of bored mnetters with nothing else to talk abut

And theres no proof softzilla was a troll no

@JaysusWept some people like to think they're vair vair clever at picking apart stories and being oh so cool. Don't worry about it!

OP, I think you're right and grey rock is the way to go. These people thrive on drama - deny them that and it'll all fizzle out eventually until things get a bit boring and they find their next target.

I would stake money on it that one of them at some time will contact you because they have been the victim - then you can give them the biggest middle finger.

All this talk of digging up evidence, further confrontations, going to the school etc. will only fan the flames and keep this bs going imo. You've done what you could to exonerate yourself and they've proven they're more interested in ganging up and getting carried away with school girl mentality drama than the truth. Cut your losses, put on a brave face and trust that it will blow over.

Picture yourself near a stream.
Birds are singing in the crisp, cool mountain air.
Nothing can bother you here.
No one knows this secret place.
You are in total seclusion from that place called the world.
The soothing sound of a gentle waterfall fills the air with a cascade of serenity.
The water is clear.
You can easily make out the face of the person whose head you're holding under the water.
There now, feeling better?

oh @TheRobinIsBobbingAlong, i proper laughed at that!

Never have I wanted to take up cross stitch to have that immortalised! 🤣