Third (and final) thread - C nonsense

[JaysusWept]

Unbelievable that this is the 3rd thread and still nothing has been resolved.
I wasn’t going to start this one but if anything good comes out of this shite it will be a Glasgow/Scotland MN meet up!

I know folk laugh at all the ‘DAILY MAIL MAY NOT USE THIS’ stuff, but here’s me giving the scummy DM permission to use this 👋

So sorry OP they are just a bunch of bitches

Pmsl Hippie yes!!!

Have just read all the threads and the latest development is making me think that it is K who is behind a lot of this and could be the one involved with C's husband (if indeed her husband is doing anything other than plumbing!)

This kind of stuff makes me glad I have no friends. My sympathies, OP.

I have been following these threads.

These women are just strange and pathetic. They enjoy immature behaviour. Yuck. C will get bored once the drama with OP fades and will turn to someone else in the group next as her next plaything. The truth will come out then (hopefully).

It's sad these women go with herd mentality in order to have friends.

I don't know WA. Is there any chance, you weren't removed from the group but the whole group deleted instead?? (Grabbing at straws.)

I always thought I was too old for shit like this; sadly I found out, just as many of us have, that people are wankers no matter how old they are ☹️

What the heck is this thread about?

@handslikecowstits That's what I was wondering.

Rachelover60 In a nutshell: The OP has been accused of something she didn't do by someone called C. All her friends have shunned her because they believe C.

They can say what they want to her face. I bet none of those bastards will ever cross her. They know what she is - they just don't want to be upa gainst her

Oh JaysusWept this has made me rage for you! I have taken ages reading through the 3 threads and I think you have handled it really well, I don’t think I’d have been as dignified! I would be proud to have you as a friend if I was closer to you and certainly not treat you like that.
I know you must have read far too many comments of women going through the same thing, it is upsetting that we see so many women who claim to be “for each other” but then turn on you in a heartbeat. I have recently discovered that my closest friends are not quite as loyal as I had thought and have been missing out on play dates and dinner invites. I have been there for one of them for 10 years supporting them through so much and introduced the other to our group, and helping her too. I am done being a giver and a pushover all the time just to be pushed out.
Approaching 40 and dealing with playground behaviour is hard work, but it has helped me to realise that I have some good work friends that have stepped up. My DC is the most important thing in my world so my focus is now on her and the rest of my family.
I really hope that your DD is not affected by this and that you can hold your head up high, let the superficial narcissistic losers live their fake lives based on lies 💐🥰

Can I just ask that if C has been found on FB and you have mutual friends with her, please don’t say anything about this thread.
I know I said I wouldn’t mind the DM picking up on it, but now I’m just thinking of how much hassle there would be if they identified themselves and how they’d definitely use this to further play the victim!
Although, in saying that, I’m not going to ask for the threads to be deleted. If they have seen it, well, tough. I haven’t lied in it and it’s all just lies and smokescreens from them.

Not heard a single word today. I’ve gently prodded at DD and she was still playing with C and K’s dd’s at playtime and lunchtime, and she seems her usual happy self, so there seems to be no drama there at school for her thankfully. And that is the only bit that actually matters in all of this.

Something tells me this won't be the third and final thread!

Apologies folks - I didn't explain myself fully above. From what I've read online and experienced in RL, it's very easy to drip poison into an insecure person's ear. Whilst I am not defending C's actions in any way (frankly, she sounds off her head) I am wondering whether her paranoia has come from someone other than her husband. K fits the bill perfectly here. C confides in K that she suspects her husband (he mightn't have done anything at all!) so K decides to shit stir for reasons of her own, as above.

I appreciate this doesn't help the OP at all and I would be incandescent with rage over this. TBH I would probably have acted hastily and over emotionally by now which is why I haven't offered any advice. Often what I would do isn't what I'd advise anyone else to do!

I've had this happen to me too. Bitch from my running club thought I was getting way too comfortable in her little gang and so started saying some awful things about me. Some people don't actually mature from schoolyard bullying, they just learn how to do it better.

I’ve experienced something very similar in my early twenties and all I can say OP is you handled this whole thing in a very dignified way and you have every right to stand tall knowing you have told the truth. Eventually C’s lies will catch up with her, maybe not now but eventually when she begins slipping up and forgetting what lies she told.

By then it will be too late for the others to salvage anything with you, but hopefully they will see sense and realise what a toxic person she is and begin to realise themselves how rediculous they’ve behaved!

You're right op. That your dd is unaffected is exactly the right focus.

I suspect that by not perpetuating the drama this will rightly all fizzle out and die a natural death. Personally I think that's the right thing to do. Let it die and hold your head high, move on and live well.

Thank god for that op re your dd

I thought and hoped that might be the case I hope it lasts and the drama fades

Just read all three threads and I wanted to send some very unmumsnetty hugs to you OP. You’ve been treated like shite and my heart goes out to you. ❤️

Christ what boring, pointless lives they lead if this is their idea of fun!

From how c is coming across I'm not surprised her husband would be having an affair. Two good deeds and all that...

How did pick up go @JaysusWept? Did you see any of them?

So glad dd is ok.

Start a little gossip of yourself and tell ppl that you saw C and L shagging each other and actually cheating on their respective husbands...their marriage is a facade and they actually have an affair, and because you uncovered this C decided to start this circus to divert the attention from their actions to you...so they'll taste their own venom....you say you saw them together and don't back down, just like she's doing. She'll never ever be able to prove it's not true!
Then enjoy yourself 🍷

What @Hippee said! 😂😂

Seriously though, I’m going to go against the grain here and say I think you should be shouting your innocence from the rooftops! Staying quiet only consolidates Cuntoline’s lies surely?? Get a friend and go over there when both husband and wife will be present, then quietly and politely ask to see the proof, and keep doing it. Otherwise she has got away with this crap, and will expand on it massively upon finding no opposition....