Expectations after a year together .

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I don’t want to give a ‘he does this ‘and ‘I do that ‘ scenario as I would dearly love your unbiased opinions .
After a year of being in a relationship , as two people who are in their early thirties who don’t live together, but one of whom is a house owner , what would average expectations be? Both working . Him professional job, high earning. Me low earning but full time work.
There have been no serious highs or lows. We meet a couple of times a week . I am possibly more keen generally and to to move to next step . He is not. What would You expect thanks . I don’t want to be unreasonable but I don’t want to wait forever for him to decide his future either . Thanks

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This is an old thread but just wondering if the OP continued the relationship, and if so, how it’s panned out?

OP, I get that you are very fond of each other, but it sounds as though you are a bit on the periphery of his life, while he inhabits his whole life fully. Even if he is a lovely bloke he is passively wasting your fertility, which he must be aware of. To me, this is thieving of the worst kind. If someone stole £100,000 from you that would be terrible but if someones steals your fertile years that is the most horrible crime because once it is gone it is gone for ever. Pull away and see if he comes after you, give him a couple of months, tops. Also, with all this free time and no commitment from him why should you not start looking at dating again?