Has anyone ever heard of a Twin Flame and if so can I hear your experiences please?

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As above then I have recently found out that there’s such a thing as a Twin Flame, this is apparently more than a soul mate, I’m not sure if I have found mine so I would like to hear about your experiences with your twin flame, if you have any?

Thanks, IF x

Yeah she did, it wasn’t her fault that he cheated but I do wish she never told me.

Cheating is not great but that doesn't not make you empathic.

Plenty Emps do. Either cheat themselves or become Dirty Little Secrets.

You would have been picking up on the vibe anyway.

No, not her fault he cheated. She must not have had much self-esteem.

No she didn’t but she certainly got him back when she met a new man, someone that she’s still with 24 years later, not like him having dirty little one night stands, when she finally left him and threw him out his hair went grey in a week and he lost 2 stone, he couldn’t believe it!

In a week??? I thought that was a myth!

Well maybe I’m wrong, I was just 14 when they split so it may have been longer, but he kept coming to the house crying and I think my mum felt a sense of guilt towards him, ironic isn’t it, and she let him in and all he did was sleep for 16 hours, woke up, begged her to reconsider, “I’ll change I’ll change” blah blah blah, then left and did the same again the next day but this time he stayed although I can’t remember him coming out the bedroom, I remember his hair was pure grey, maybe a month then, but even though my mum knew he deserved to feel crap then she still felt guilty.

Funny you said I’m an Empath as my brother said to me that I take on my friends issues’ like they’re my own, he never said anything about boyfriends though, I’m away to google what an Empath actually is, I know a little but not a lot.

Oh my god I am an Empath! Bloody hell I had about 9 from the list of 13 points that make you an Empath! Freaky, now I know what I am then this may help me from stopping doing things I shouldn’t in relationships, relationships are my biggest life fails.

I have read about twin flames. I'm not sure about it really. My fiance I believe is my soul mate. The love I feel for him takes my breath away. When he is not with me it feels like a part of me is missing. We moved in together after 2 months because being apart was upsetting. We have been together 3 years now and we absolutely adore each other. Things are still the same as they were at the start apart from the fact our love is even stronger.

Apparently I frequently fall for narcissists! Mmmn I know what narcissism is but unsure if I could recognise it in another person, I better read up on this.

Told you so!

Welcome to the club!

Sounds like teenage unrealistic bollocks to me. Nice way to fuck yourself up looking for The One instead of taking care of yourself.
But I'm old. I think shit like that.

Knock it off eh @Bellini OP has already had a bit of a roast on here. She's just tound out something life changing about herself.

This is the day she starts her journey towards full weaponisation.

BTW OP Check on narcsite.com

The only man who talks sense. HG Tudor

Thanks 75.

Are you an Empath too? The thing that really stood out for me in the ‘13 signs your an Empath’ was the thing about not containing yourself around babies, puppies and kittens, I absolutely cannot walk past a puppy, or cute dog, without patting it, asking the owner all about it, and sometimes I kiss it, it’s like I need to do it, if I don’t then I’ll think about that puppy all day, madness! I’m not so much like that about babies though.

On the train tonight then I was reading Take A Break and there was an awful story about the physical abuse of a little girl and I got tears in my eyes, that must be taking on the feelings of someone else’s pain.

It’s funny that I’m an Empath as my mother always told me that I didn’t show any emotion, however I just don’t show it in front of her for various reasons.

I shall read that site that you mentioned 75, thanks again.

It’s one thing knowing what I am but I imagine that the hard work is going to be recognising the narcissist in a man.

yes a soulmate isn't your perfect partner either btw. Its someone who knows you on a soul level and can even be a friend but a lot of the time is the one that is on a deep level with you but you learn a hard life lesson with. A twin flame is your mirror part at a soul level. The other half of you. Think of yourself as being split into parts to lead several lives at one time. A twin flame is one half. Again not really supposed to be your perfect partner and most never actually meet their twin flame.

I don’t believe in one soul mate, I think lots of us have a few soul mates, otherwise we would only have one serious relationship.

exactly we do have more than one soulmate. They don't have to be relationships either, some are just friends.

I was just reading ‘7 phrases to know if your dating a narcissist’ and whilst I don’t think the man that I’m in love with was a narcissist then the guy that I last had sex with, 3 years ago next month was definitely one! He tried coming back to me, every now and then, after we had our fling and in that 3 weeks he was talking about a 30 year marriage between us, he had told his mother about me, he had been through my phone with a fine tooth comb whilst I was sleeping and then when I told him that we were just a fling then he had tears in his eyes, he simply cannot be without a woman, the last time he contacted me was November 2017 and he declared his love, told me that he had been doing his family and friends heads in by talking about me, he was talking like we were girlfriend and boyfriend and now I understand that he was trying to ‘hoover’ me back in, I contemplated meeting him for sex as the sex between us was great and he was gorgeous, but he was scaring me with the crap he was coming out with so I arranged to meet him 3 times and 3 times I cancelled, anyway he went out for his gyms Xmas night out and met another woman and emailed me to tell me a month later, and in that month he had apparently ‘fell in love’ with her, after 2 months previously telling me that he had fallen for me! I had a lucky escape there, I always thought that he might have been a narcissist and now I’m 100% certain.

He needs a woman in his life always, this is to give him validation and to take their supply.
He love bombs you like your the best thing since sliced bread and then ghosts you like you meant nothing, even though he tries to make you think that he loved you.
He wants to know everything about you, no doubt to use against you in the future.
When we first met he told me that he thought I was lonely, which I was, and this is why he probably homed in on me, that and the fact he fancied me, I’m sure of that.
He tried making me jealous.

The above is everything he did in 3 weeks, I’m glad I have finally recognised a narcissistic man. I don’t think the man that I love now is one because he didn’t do any of these things, he treated me normally and didn’t profess his love or anything, our relationship went at a normal pace, unlike Mr Muscle (he was the 3 week fling) did.

The violent guy was definitely a narc, oh my god he was the one man that you’d meet and say that there is no way on earth that he would hit a woman, threaten to rape a woman and play psychological games with a woman that he claimed to love, even some of his friends thought that I was making bad things up about him, until he lost it with me one night in front of 2 of them, and then they knew what he was really like, and I was glad at that.