AM I BEING PARNOID? PLEASE HELP

[mum34]

Hi all
Just want to know if i am being silly just back from hols was good apart from hubby talking to every girl in the place and getting their phone nos and email addressess he also shaved himself on hols is this normal behaviour i might as well have not being there
we have three kids together
any advice please

Umm - why was he getting their phone numbers and email addresses? Was he doing this in front of you? Did you ask him why he was doing it?

no he didnt do it in front of me i found them in his bag and he said they were for our daughter which was a lie

he said i was being jealous

Sorry but this is not normal behaviourer at all, if he was on a family holiday taking down girls numbers & email addresses & shaving his parts then something is seriously wrong.

Did you sit back & take all this? what is his explanation?

he is a prick and you know it.

yes this was a family holiday

yes i sat back and took all of this he said there was something wrong with my head laughing and joking with everyone apart from me

he said they were our daughters friends
but when i asked her she said they were not here friends

he bought a pc on hols and was looking at porn on it when i opened the page to interent thats what came up he told me he wasnt just fed up with all lies

You poor girl!

And who the hell were these females? Wasn't it obvious to them that he was with someone else?

My only advice is to accept that your husband is a knob. Where you go from there is another matter.

If you let him do this then surely you can only expect to be treated this way????

If my husband had taken one woman's phone number he would have been out on his ear, no questions asked no matter what his pathetic excuse may be.

Sorry but it as easy as that.

he says things like if he can get them to laugh he can get their knickers off.
then tells every1 i am the one with the problem

mortage
told him on hols felt really alone

hes looking for somewhere else to live

i asked him why did he shave on hols he said shaved at home i told him he hadnt cause would have notice he said to be cleaner do you think he was planning to sleep with some1

has he always been a bit this way? How old is he?

45 years old

hes very good at talking i would be a bit reserved and laid back keep myself to myself
he has always the loudest and has to be centre of attention

hmmmm - you need to talk to him at length as you both sound unhappy.

I think he would like to I'm afraid.

Has he always been a flirtatious type of person?

yes but knows it upsets me stilldoes it cant see any harm in it

thaks for all your help what do i do now with him

He still has the phone number and email address cause i found it today he didnt bin it he said he would never or has never done that on anyone before affair but not the first time found things dirty text messages which he denied

THROW THE TWAT OUT! HE WILL CHEAT ON YOU WITHOUT A DOUBT!!