Samsung Secure Folder

[stupidorparanoid]

Hello MN I need some advice.
I was going through my husband phone, looking at pictures on his gallery (with his permission). Then I pressed the recent app, something came up as secure folder, I couldn't get into it as it needed a pin to go in. I asked him about it and denied installing it and said that it came with the Samsung phone. I insisted and then he tried a few pins which he says he uses and said it was not working. He later said to me that he managed to unlock it and gave me access t o eh secure folder. I didn't even bother looking as I am thinking, if there was anything incriminating, then he would have deleted it before giving me the phone.
Should I be worried? does anyone know anything about secure folders?
Thanks

@stupidorparanoid

I really want to its just do complicated. Do you think this is fixable? I'm not sure if I can trust him but hes adamant he doesn't speak to her anymore.

Is the ow years younger than your Dh? How is he being with you now? Sending hugs your way

Hi stupid sorry this is happenening to you. He will be angry as he’s been found out.
You need to really disengage conversation with him so google Grey Rock technique. You need to gather all financial assets ie wage slips bank account figures stocks and shares. It is usually for these cheeky fuckers to start hiding money.
I would stop doing anything for him, cooking or washing etc. I assume your in separate beds.
Don’t do The Pick Me Dance (google this):
Ensure you tell family and friends.
He will deny deny deny - he will be angry and gas light you - he will desperately want to hold on the the version of himself as “a good man”
I’m sure it bloody hurts.
Keep a close eye of finances.
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Thanks @Mary1935...have looked into it!

@Fielder7 not sure how old she is she looks early/mid thirties. H is 42.

She texted and said if I dont leave her alone, she will call the police.

She can get you arrested for texting her to find out if anything has been going on between them.

She can have an affair with your husband ( or flirt / send inappropriate messages etc) but not face any consequences. Not fair!!!

Then you look like the crazy one!!

@stupidorparanoid

This is disgraceful! Didn't she block you or was this before she was blocked?

Your dh has told.her to say this I'm sure . He obviously wants to hide what's going on. Worried she might reveal.something hendoesnt want you to know.

I am.so sorry for your situation. I am.sure my DP is still.txting ow at work but deletes all messages so I cant see.

@louise5754

I don't think she can be arrested for that at all! The police would.see it as a domestic that could be resolved. They advise you to block the person and that's about it

@louise5754 she was texting me too lol... and when she decided she didnt want to anymore, now am harassing her. Anyway not texting her anymore as cant be bothered with her.

@fielder7 she blocked me on what's app, then I texted her normal messages. Just to say to her that I know she was lying to me and that am done with both of them. Seems like shes being very awkward at work and making people notice that her and H are no longer talking

@stupidorparanoid I've just caught up on this and I'm so sorry you are going through this. It mirrors my situation last year and I am now 8 months on from it as I left him as soon as I found their messages were definitely not 'just friends'. It really isn't worth your energy contacting the OW again. If you haven't already, tell him to leave. Pack his fucking bags and say she is welcome to him as there is no coming back from this at all. They will outwardly be minimising their relationship at work until a few months down the line when the dust is settled, they will miraculously have just got together.

You contacted her (good for you) and now she is attempting damage control at work. More fool her...their colleagues have likely been wise to their ‘friendship’ for ages. They will be lying low for a while.

@stupidorparanoid

How do you know what shes doing at work? She sounds very needy to me and wants your dhs attention. Do u know if she has any DC or even a partner herself

@Fielder7 I have no idea what shes doing at work or her personal circumstances and am not interested anymore! I am concentrating in my own life and my DC

@stupidorparanoid

Hope you are doing ok op

Am doing ok thanks ..been looking at some houses/flats.
He's now begging me to think well before I do anything drastic .. cut off all contacts with OW and even said will look for a new job (so he says) but I dont think I can trust him.