The next stage of my life WILL be better...

[Dumbledior]

New thread for me to moan...

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no dior i don't believe in that mumbo jumob either

here's my FB horoscope for today:

You are ready to get this show on the road, and you aren't about to take 'no' for an answer. It could be time to practice your listening skills when someone close to you needs your advice. Make sure you understand the situation fully before giving any recommendations. Getting ready for tomorrow may take longer than you imagined.

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YES! You can! You have come a long way these past few weeks. You owe it to yourself now Dior. There's a good life out there and it's waiting for you!!! xx

just caught up on the thread hun...i do not for one second think that ur stringing H along one bit, it is a shite position to be in,and people deal with it differantly, and if people actually think your stringing him on then they need to ask themselves why is he actually still there when he wont come near you and must deep down know that its coming to the end???dont be so hard on yourself

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Dior I spotted on FB that it was your birthday tomorrow - just in case I don't get on, then HAPPY BIRTHDAY! for tomorrow!

Do you have any nice plans?

Happy Birthday Dior - is it a big one?!!

You really do need to talk to your H - he is only a man after all and probably hopeless at reading any signals at all.

Dont come back at me for being sexist it was meant in the nicest way.

One good reason for staying with mine is that i have taken years to 'train' him and i know all his silly little ways

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i find it strange that you're sister thinks that, it's usually the woman that has the problem going back to the "friendship" thing after the line has been crossed iyswim.maybe he is gutted that it didnt happen and he knows the ship has sailed,hurt ego?????

could it be possible that he still thinks you want to be more than friends, so is being particularly miserable and unfriendly to make sure he doesn't give you the wrong impression?

and I do think your sister may be right in some respects. a guy in my old job made it very clear he had feelings for me, and even though I managed to explain to him that I didn't feel that way back and it all ended 'amicably', iyswim, I never really could be friends with him after that. I was always so scared that he'd take things the wrong way or read too much into me being friendly with him.

I'm not excusing G's behaviour in any way. He's out of order being grumpy and snappy with you. But just trying to give you the other point of view.

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Ah - well if he's being grumpy with everyone then it's definitely not what I thought.

I think perhaps you are too nice (iyswim!) and maybe worry a bit too much about him and his reactions to you. He doesn't sound like he deserves your time or to occupy your thoughts for one more second... let him go off and be grumpy on his own and don't even bother asking if he's ok. In fact, just don't care. He's the one who'll lose out on your friendship. You don't need to be surrounded by people who let their personal problems affect their friendships.

If I was grumpy every time I'd had problems with H in tha last year I'd have no friends left!!

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY DIOR!!

Have a great day and enjoy your night out.

Here's to the next year of your life being so much better!!

xxx

yes happy birthday hun.....make a wish x x x

Happy Birthday dior xx enjoy and have fun xx

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