The next stage of my life WILL be better...

[Dumbledior]

New thread for me to moan...

xx

i dont recall you mentioning him dior

Dior, I KNEW you would be brave enough to confront H with it all eventually!! I'm really pleased you've both decided to give it a proper go. At least now he knows how you were feeling and hopefully things will only get better. Well done you

Sorry that I haven't been around to support you this last couple of weeks when this has all been happening (thanks BT ) I have been thinking of you.

Hope to catch you for a chat soon xxx

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oh god yes! now you mention windows and stalking i remember!

lol sorry

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Try not to expect too much too soon Dior. It will take time and patience to get the spark back, there has been a lot of damage done to your relationship and your confidence so it won't be fixed overnight.
Please ignore G and The Barber. They are just distracting you from your decision to make it work with H.
Also, I really don't want to sound harsh here, but how would you feel if you found out that your H had been thinking of other women when he's supposed to be putting all his efforts into your marriage.
I suppose I'm saying what Baffy said, we all want a happy ending for you and these other guys are clearly not right for you - they have just given you a much needed ego boost. Use the confidence they have given you to your benefit but don't dwell on them.

Lecture over

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Thank god for that. The last thing I want to do is upset you. I might have a bit of the old PMT myself - have just eaten 3 chocolate muffins and am now considering another one. My bosses are out for the day (hence me being on here!) and the muffins are leftover from a birthday yesterday. Shall I have another one ...?

have another one.. I long for a muffin lol

Dior, it's just PMT though.. Do you and H have any plans for the weekend?

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lol, not great. You can catch my thread before it's deleted if you're quick.

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i think it is pretty normal to have a few ups and downs when trying to put your relationship back together dior

the main thing is that you think it is on an upward curve, rather than down

Dior, it took a long time for you to reach the stage where you could talk to H about things - so bear in mind that it'll take time to revive your feelings.

Have you thought of getting a copy of 'I love you but I'm not in love with you'? I've put it on my Amazon wish list as it really made a lot of sense to me, and I want to keep a copy at home in case DP and I go off track again - rather than hogging the library copy as I have done for months .

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Oh Dior big {{{}}}s. Could you manage to spend some time together this weekend? Even if you're tired, curl up on the sofa and fall asleep, if necessary (I often do, oh the number of films or TV progs I have fallen asleep through) - at least it'll show willing...

oh bugger. It might be worth mentioning to him that you have PMT and you're feeling a bit off.

See how you feel next week

Yes, the important thing is to communicate - to let him know that if you go to bed instead of watching a film, it's not that you are rejecting HIM, but that you are PM and feeling poo.

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how are things today dior?

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wow Dior just looked at your pictures they are amazing you are mucho talented lady