Hiya - Im back - have been for a while, but have had terrible probs with the computer since P installed new security software. No doubt I will have more trouible soon when I try to get my own internet provider installed.
Anyway, never mind about that! Dior, have been trying to catch up with things. Sorry I missed you when you were in Devon.
I can quite understand why you still feel undecided. The more I think about it, the more I think Ive been in a similar situation for years, but wouldnt admit it to myself. I just kept making allowances for what was pretty antisocial behaviour really. I just wouldnt want to say I wish id ended it years ago, because DD wouldnt be here.
You look great in your pics, youre obviously a great Mum and a fun person to be with. Like the others say, there will probably come a time when you will just know what the right thing to do is - H will do something that makes you know what to do. That was what happened with us. And now I think back to many situations when I should have just siad Im out of here.
Getting a bit tense myself now - P should be moving next week - or at least he should get his flat, no doubt the actual moving process will take a looong time, as he has not started any packing!
Keep posting - it will make things easier in the long run. I wish id had su[pport like this in the past, I might have done things differently, who knows?