37 weeks and my boyfriend just said

[brexitisamare]

He will "smash my face in".

He's playing a game online downstairs, fine. But he was screaming at it and it woke me up so I text him asking him to please keep it down.

He text me back telling me to "fuck off".

So I turned the WiFi off (it's in our bedroom). Quite childish of me now I look back but I was absolutely furious at being woken up and told to fuck off when I hadn't actually done anything wrong.

He came banging up the stairs, punched the bedroom door and said "if you ever do that again I will smash this whole house up and I'll smash your face in".

And he turned it back on, slammed the door, said something about wishing we weren't having our baby and now he's back downstairs playing whatever he's playing and I'm sat in bed shaking.

I realise my behaviour here was a bit childish but surely nothing warrants that? I don't think he will come back up or do anything providing I don't touch the internet (I'm not going to move now at all).

He's quite a calm person and I guess I've seen him angry before but nothing like this and he's never threatened me before. I cannot believe that's just happened. I don't even know why I'm posting I just don't know what to do now I'm sat here shaking and trying to calm myself down as I am heavily pregnant with this horrible mans child.

I can't leave because I don't have anywhere to go at this hour and to be honest the thought of having to go downstairs right now petrifies me.

I guess I just need a handhold here 😞

Been thinking of you. ❤️💐

Hope you’re ok

Hope all is ok

Leave

hope you are ok

Maybe OP got a taxi or ambulance to hospital and didn't take her phone charger. It's unlikely that her boyfriend will take her any of the things she needs. So she might be ok but still in hospital and not able to use her phone. That's what I'm hoping!

OP if and when you read this, you'll know that we've all been thinking of you.

No pressure on OP - maybe she has a baby now!?

Something's happened. Either a good thing or a bad thing. My guess is pre-eclampsia diagnosis and emergency section.

Let's hope that godawful partner isn't on the scene.

Like you originallyfromLA I think Brexit likely had pre-eclapmsia and an emergency section.

It's possible she may have lost her phone, if there was any kind of difficulties getting out of the house, or that she may not have the means to charge it.

So it could be a while till we hear from her.

I really hope she's OK.

It may be that the "D"P makes promises about change and she ends up back with him and she feels she can't tell us.

Brexit I hope you manage to break free from him, but even if you don't, please let us know you're OK when you get a chance, we're all rooting for you xx

Hoping and praying that you and baby daughter are ok Brexit

I’m convinced that your blood pressure would have been through the roof as soon as he threatened you, then didn’t come down because there was nothing to soothe you or comfort you in the time that you were stuck upstairs too scared to move.
And am I right in thinking you didn’t eat until midday yesterday, because you were still wary of going near him?
It’s hardly surprising that you became ill.
We’re all praying here that you’re cuddling a new baby girl and that you’re both recovering well. I hope you have lovely hospital staff around you until your family can get there.
As others have said, get him taken off your notes as next of kin? If he tries to come near you it will probably make your BP go sky high again. You try to convince yourself you’re ok (been there) but honestly, he’s so poisonous it’s of no benefit to either of you to let him anywhere near. You owe him nothing. Not him, not his family.
You poor little sausage. You’ve been so brave.

Xxxxx

Hope you're okay @brexitisamare

Thinking of you op

I'm hoping this is made up so that there isn't someone in danger along with her baby. It's amazing how someone you never met, or is likely to meet, can have so many strangers so worried .

I've been following this thread and had to post to add another voice to your cheerleaders @brexit! I hope you got the care you needed when you went to hospital and that you were able to contact your family. You're clearly a tough cookie and will be a wonderful mother to your daughter. Take care and do update us when you can.

I hope you and your baby are ok Brexit.

Hope you are ok OP

Really? Ah I feel so bad for you. Id be down their and kick his ass out if that was me, Wow just Wow. Call the police and get him removed burn the PlayStation and dump his arse, your little one doesn’t need someone like that in their life this is ABUSE. And he will abuse the child too, even smash them up because they are crying or something equally small. Words now but actions later.

If you need support PM me, I can try to help you feel better. Im just so glad he didn’t hit you, Doesn’t say how long he is with you, but this is a red flag. I bet you pay for the internet too, this guy needs marching orders and id call the police as he will get nasty when its time for him to go, live separately and he has his own room and internet etc, then no piss taking from him. They back down when the police are called, woman beaters always do. Now he knows he can do this, then he will do it even more.

@Scorpvenus1 -read the thread please. The situation was moved on considerably and at the moment there are serious concerns for OP and her baby.

Thinking of you OP, lots of worried people on here are thinking of you too x

Cannot stop refreshing and checking this post. Really hope you and baby are okay OP x

Shame here IfIcouldturnbacktime217

Echoing everyone else in that I hope you and your baby are well and safe.

I hope you don't mind OP but I'm praying for you and your baby girl! Hopefully you are both safe and well and that you can confide in the midwives how dangerous your home situation is.

I've been checking on this thread frequently to see how the OP is. I hope all is well for you and your baby OP.

I'm also thinking of you and am checking regularly for updates. I hope you and your baby are ok x