37 weeks and my boyfriend just said

[brexitisamare]

He will "smash my face in".

He's playing a game online downstairs, fine. But he was screaming at it and it woke me up so I text him asking him to please keep it down.

He text me back telling me to "fuck off".

So I turned the WiFi off (it's in our bedroom). Quite childish of me now I look back but I was absolutely furious at being woken up and told to fuck off when I hadn't actually done anything wrong.

He came banging up the stairs, punched the bedroom door and said "if you ever do that again I will smash this whole house up and I'll smash your face in".

And he turned it back on, slammed the door, said something about wishing we weren't having our baby and now he's back downstairs playing whatever he's playing and I'm sat in bed shaking.

I realise my behaviour here was a bit childish but surely nothing warrants that? I don't think he will come back up or do anything providing I don't touch the internet (I'm not going to move now at all).

He's quite a calm person and I guess I've seen him angry before but nothing like this and he's never threatened me before. I cannot believe that's just happened. I don't even know why I'm posting I just don't know what to do now I'm sat here shaking and trying to calm myself down as I am heavily pregnant with this horrible mans child.

I can't leave because I don't have anywhere to go at this hour and to be honest the thought of having to go downstairs right now petrifies me.

I guess I just need a handhold here 😞

Best wishes, OP

Really hope you're ok OP xxxx

Hey OP, hope you are ok. If you are at the hospital please tell someone about his behaviour, the threats of violence and him punching the door.

The hospital staff can help you get the support in place to leave, to keep you and your baby safe. Realise if you are very ill it might not be top priority, but it's very important that you don't try to manage this alone. You need some irl support.

Thinking about you here OP, hope all is well

Me too, have been thinking of you, OP. Virtual hand hold, hope all is going okay. X

Yes please tell the hospital staff op

So glad you've gone in @brexitisamare .

Dizziness and headaches was my main symptoms as well as just feeling not right. I nearly fainted a few times.

Headaches are a big thing with PE. I hope you're doing ok and your Mum and sister are there. It doesn't really hit until after it's all happened, or it didn't with me.

From 4pm on Friday being told I need to stay in, being induced at 9pm and then at 2am needing an EMCS it was surreal but in My experience the staff were excellent.

Just take comfort in that you are full term now, so it's safe for baby to arrive now.

I am thinking of you this morning. 💐

I'm hoping you are being well cared for medically and emotionally.

I’m really surprised they didn’t ask you to come in straight away given your symptoms

Me too, especially as OP had also had a headache and was seeing flashing lights for the last few days. Also she had mentioned it was a high risk pregnancy and she knew she was at risk of pre-eclampsia

Time to go OP, this isn't going to get better. Threatening to physically assault his pregnant girlfriend... for turning off the wifi of all things? You don't want that in your life and you don't want that for your daughter either.

Just read your updates op. Hope you're ok after the last few days, glad to hear you are getting checked out.

Miffymeow RTFT ffs

I hope you got to the hospital & all is under control? Assuming you got there by taxi, whatever the hypothetical remorse & promises, the bf let you go late at night, as he was immersed in his addiction to gaming.
Unforgivable.

Hope all is well.

Make sure you remove him as next of kin from your record so they don't give him any info or call him (not that he will probably even notice you're gone 🙄)

Thinking of you OP, hope everything is going well.

Hope you and baby are okay OP.

I do hope all is ok, and you and your baby are your absolute priority, not your dickhead bf/ex.

Another poster wishing you well op, l had pre eclampsia with my DD and had similar symptoms so glad you have gone to hospital.

I hope you are ok OP

Hi op, I hope your both okay x

I hope you and baby are ok op

You were so strong and brave last night OP. I am thinking about you.

Hope your OK OP

Stop making excuses for his behaviour. You being childish or not, that reaction is not OK. I'd be out of there before the baby is born.

Sorry, I hadn't read the rest of the posts. I hope you're OK, OP. ❤