Handhold - Told H I want a divorce, the fallout and rise again - hopefully

[awesmum]

Part 2

Well I never thought I would have to make a follow up page.

Thank you all lovely people for the handholds, if you've read the previous thread you know what I have been through, and I can't begin to explain how wonderful I found the support on here. So Thank you ... on I go!

But I know how relentless he is. Because he actually believes his own lies it's difficult even with evidence to show him he's wrong

Thing is you don't have to convince him of anything, it's the court you will show the evidence of his lies.

You will be fine, you know he pisses off the judge and even his own solicitor.

I agree that he can ask for full custody all he wants. The court has no reason to give him that though. You have shown all along that you can stick to the court ordered agreements and he has shown all along that he ignores them and does his own thing.

Keep your head, go well prepared and keep doing what you are doing. Good luck!

Full custody haha not a chance what a dreamer

I'm sure the judge will see through his bullshit!
He's seriously delusional. Let's hope everyone sees him for what he really is.

Your picture of your walk is beautiful!

Court day today

I have just been informed by nursery that he has defied the court order, yesterday by picking her up 5 hours early and not bringing her in at all today.

Wish me luck people.

Good luck

Is he not meant to be in court with you? I presume he can't do that if he has your DD with him!

Good luck @Awesmum.

@ContessaIsOnADietDammit he's left her with an employees wife

good luck today xxx

Further evidence for the court, I can't understand his thinking at all. What a stupid thing to do today. I'll be thinking of you and your family.

He just keeps digging deeper and deeper....

What an utter muppet.

Good luck today xxx

It's difficult to understand what he's doing because he just isn't rational. Why break a court order by keeping her out of nursery when he needs childcare for the day?

Best of luck for today, OP.

Good luck today

Thinking of you and GOOD LUCK for today! x

He’s probably broken the court order, as he Truly believes that he will gain full custody today...

I wonder if he thinks I will now just agree to 50/50 for fear of loosing her in her entirety. Bully boy tack ticks, what a surprise, completely out of character.

He really is arrogant to break the court order so blatantly as you go in to court.

Good luck today xx

Good luck xxx

Do you think he's done that so he has control of her tonight and if they do order him to give her back to you tonight it's not easy for you.... like it would be if you were to just collect her from nursery!

Good luck for today.

I hope your solicitor can bring up that he tool DD out of nursery early yesterday and has not taken her there today.

Massive good luck. 🍀

Good luck today.

I've RTFTs. You're amazing. Good luck.

I hate him so much.

Good luck

Good Luck xxx