ok this is embarrassing but I need to know [smile]

[cheltenhamgal]

I have been dating a wonderful guy and it has got to the intimate stage........ well to put it politely he is very wide and quite a big guy what would be the best position for a)me to control the thrust and b) for him to go deep but not for me to feel uncomfortable ?

I have no suggestions to offer but will say one thing...

Big AND wide!!!!Luckyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!

Roffle!!

I'd say you on top.

nikki

wow I didn't expect such quick answers lol

Oh, I had one of those, is it also very long?

Sit on top, I would suggest, that opens you wider, and you stay in control. (and he can play with your other two assets)

Definitely you on top, or perhaps spoons?

Lulu - see my paintballing thread...I'm so in need of light relief....(no pun intended)

Cheltenham - hope all goes ok for you and enjoy!

no he isn't very long, it is just the wideness. And without wishing to put this thread in the gutter, he is wide and wants to go deeper in my mouth but can't bear the thought cos I am worried I will gag. Don't get me wrong I enjoy what we do, and he isn't asking me to do anything I don't want to lol but he is rather big

i think from behind [ not anal i mean though] over the sofa arm or a bean bag [ i not speaking from expierience though]

Mm...try it out and if you do gag, then try to turn it into a sexy groan.....

thanks nikkiBFG

Not that I'm speaking from experience here.....

I guess it's different for everyone as my dh is wide and long too and it's easier to control the depth with me on top. It does make my legs ache though so we tend to try different positions.

in the spooning position with your knees bent

ok, so I am not entirely an innocent but have never had sex in the "spooning position" - this would be just like when you sleep ?

jeez I can't believe I started this thread

yes, on your side, him behind you, by bending your legs to whichever position, you can control the amount he can enter you

there should be more of these kind of threads , people all have these questions but dare not ask lol like me

erm, was thinking of namechanging for this.
But, you probably wont gag, you have to be very aware of "opening" up at the back of your troat, this should enable you to push it all the way in.

Oooh....what questions do you have???

How do you open up at the back of your throat????

well to be honest I was thinking about name changing but couldnt remember how to do it ! lol

to allow it past the gagging point. It is hard to explain, one of my gay friends taught me