Ok touchy subject. Does it bother anyone else knowing dh has a tom tank

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God that sounds awful. But being 26weeks pg i'm completely off sex, but the thought of dh having a you know what upsets me. To the point where i want to cry when i look at him

I hate it if DH ahem...takes matters into his own hands...feel totally rejected and upset

Sorry you feel like that but he probably needs to! Don't let it upset you, ALL guys do it, even if they say they don't

Doesn't bother me at all. I thought it was normal.

sounds better than having a toy tank which is what I thought you meant

they all do it

Glad to hear i'm not alone. I think my hormones make it worse. Thing is i know he doesn't bring porn home and its stuff he has of us etc if he looks at anything.

Don't you?

Took me ages to work out what a tom tank was!!

Don't you ever, erm... alone?

Am that it took me a while to realise what you meant.

Really it doesn't bother me at all. I masturbate, DH masturbates. Sometimes we both do at the same time .

i thought it was pretty normal for both parties to do it!!

Well, as long as you wash your hands before going on the lap top!

I thought you were saying he has some kind of Thomas the Tank engine toy!!

i wish mine would. his total lack of libido makes me think he's a freak!

I thought you meant a thomas the tank engine toy i genuinely did till i read the whole thread! But tbh i wouldnt like my bloke doing a tomtank either.

no doesnt bother me, he tells me and i laugh!! (at him for trying to shock me, because it doesnt). we're quite juvenile like that

I don't unless like some of you have said its part of getting jiggy! I don't own a huge dildo or anything and if i'm honest don't get much joy from it. Sorry TMI alert

MTPW - I have a matching DH!!! Its odd isn't it - does yours show an interest in other women at all (film or rl)?

Doesn't bother me.
Maybe he loves you so much that it gets to much for him and he does it so he won't pressure you into having sex when you aren't really up for it at the mo.
When you feel upset over it just remember that he does it (probably) because he loves you.

Yeah dh and i quite open to but since being pg i'm nightmare

no flame, he doesn't. when i say no libido. i do really mean no libido. none, nada, zip, zilch, nowt.

how about yours?

Thanks singing mum. And flame no he really doesn't he finds porn trashy. I had some sexy photos done for his wedding pres and he loves them cos they're tasteful.

Still giggling over the TomTank title!

no

Mine can be interested with a bit of gentle coersion (?sp), but never in other women, no film stars or anything. Never any issue when I couldn't do anything for months on end.

People always think I'm in denial/he's sleeping with someone else/he's gay!

He he does sound funny but i didn't want to put wank! Kitty did you sort out p and t buggy- so unrelated!

No, doesn't bother me at all.

I don't always want sex when he's in the mood and sometimes he just wants that release.

I know that feeling.....

Suprised it bothers people TBH.