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Would you date someone who admits on a second meeting

239 replies

Electrascoffee · 06/10/2018 18:16

They 'occasionally' do cocaine?

OP posts:
AnneLovesGilbert · 06/10/2018 18:35

No way. People are shit on coke.

He’s testing your boundaries. Have some.

Iwillorderthefood · 06/10/2018 18:36

OK so back in the day all my friends dabbled with drugs. Ecstasy, cocaine, speed, dope. All of them have lovely families and great careers. Nobody uses it now. I was the only on that did not touch cocaine. Nobody went over the edge into addiction. So I would look deeper, is their whole life dedicated to drugs, or a very occasional dabble. Do they want you to do it too, my friends did not pressure me at all. I guess you need to figure out if you feel comfortable or not.

Bluntness100 · 06/10/2018 18:37

No, I don't approve of drugs and I'd be suspicious it was regular.

Plus, no one like a druggie other than another druggie,

MrsMozart · 06/10/2018 18:40

No. Definitely not.

Pashazade · 06/10/2018 18:42

Nope. They are supporting a trade that causes nothing but misery. All in pursuit of a so called feeling. If they only do it occasionally then they don't NEED to do it at all.

LeftRightCentre · 06/10/2018 18:44

NFW! 'Occassional', my arse. Total dealbreaker.

Electrascoffee · 06/10/2018 18:44

There is something a bit odd about him which makes me wonder if he's under the influence of anything

OP posts:
SendintheArdwolves · 06/10/2018 18:45

I'd be fine with it.

But that doesn't mean that you have to be, OP - you are allowed to be put off by anything at all.

Yonijust · 06/10/2018 18:46

No way Hose.

A druggie is a druggie.

dontknowwhyitssocold · 06/10/2018 18:46

If you have to ask on a forum about if you should give someone the benefit of the doubt

I have learned the answer is always - block, delete and move on

LeftRightCentre · 06/10/2018 18:46

There is something a bit odd about him

Yeah, he's a cokehead.

Sally2791 · 06/10/2018 18:48

No way

DoYouLikeBasghetti · 06/10/2018 18:50

Nope nope nope. Speaking from experience (and I am not anti drugs) but run a mile from a coke user.

OnMyWhistle · 06/10/2018 18:51

Gross, no thanks

Joysmum · 06/10/2018 18:51

Omg just cause people sometimes takes drugs doesn't mean they re bad people, as long as it's not a problem and they re spending loads on it

No addict started on cocaine with the intention of it being a problem, spending loads on it, and ending up an addict!

Wauden · 06/10/2018 18:52

The whole cocaine business is linked with exlpoitation of people and there is also the enforced prostitution and child abuse side.

LizzieSiddal · 06/10/2018 18:52

He’s told you in the second date that he “occasionally” uses cocaine.

He’s lying. He uses it frequently.

userblablabla · 06/10/2018 18:53

yes

invisibleoldwoman · 06/10/2018 18:53

No.

DPotter · 06/10/2018 18:54

No such thing as an 'occasional' coke user.
Steer well clear

AFistfulofDolores1 · 06/10/2018 18:54

Nope.

Angelf1sh · 06/10/2018 18:56

Nope. Not my thing and unlikely to be someone I could even be friends with tbh.

Babyroobs · 06/10/2018 18:58

absolutely not.

SmallBlondeMama · 06/10/2018 18:59

No!!!

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