I just added myself to fb chat with dh and ow

[MissMarpleMyArse]

I'm fucking fuming. I posted recently
About dh's suspect WhatsApp activity. It all stopped but I have been keeping an eye on his phone. This afternoon when he went to the toilet I clicked his apps and saw messenger was open. I've just had the chance to snoop again while he's in the shower and found messages between him and our friend (we aren't that close with her. - well I'm not). Loads of sexual stuff. I just added myself to the conversation and said 'wow I don't see that coming'
I'm upstairs now. Neither of them have read it yet.

Please print off what all these lovely ladies have posted to you and read the lovely messages when you have a down moment xx you deserve so much better xxxxx

I send so much love to you and your DC xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Ive been a lurker` on here for years and I wish I had posted on here when I was going through all this 3 years ago! I could have really done with the support all these lovely ladies give but I was too shy and ashamed and beaten down to make me think it was my fault xx

Wow. Family of strong women!

I love you and your mum! Absolutely amazing way to handle this situation although I can only imagine how upset you must be about it all, stick to your mum's suggestion with the no contact (unless through her about the kids) and just think how much different your life will be this time next year! You have so much to look forward too. I did similar 18 months ago after an 8 1/2 year awful relationship, met up by chance with my first love again about a week later and now engaged, pregnant and never been treat so well! Life will become so much better for you and I'm so proud of the way you have handled yourself and I don't even know you!

You mum is awesome, I can see where you get your guts from OP. I can't imagine how must feel right now and I'm sorry that it happened to you. Just remember that you are really really strong. You couldn't rely on that bastard of a husband but you can definitely rely on yourself!

As a man, I apologise for my gender. We're twats sometimes.

You and your mum are fantastic. Give her major thumbs up for using the word strumpet!!!

My only contribution to this apart from positive vibes is to make sure that you stay safe. It's impossible to predict how someone will react when their life implodes like this. I honestly, completely don't want to put fear in you or anything like that, but I would think a little bit consciously about your own personal safety for a little while with regards to both him and her. Make sure your door is on a chain and your windows are closed when you go to sleep, or even during the day etc etc etc.

Best wishes

Very impressed with your mum's use of the word "strumpet" & her calling him out on his "disgusting behaviour".

Just wanted to add my support as a lurker. You are fab lovely and I look forward to hearing from you soon xxx

I remember your initial thread OP and I’m really so sorry it turned out like this , it doesn’t feel like it now but you will get through this the first few weeks will probably feel like a blur so it’s good that you have your mum with you to give you support . She sounds amazing, as do you 💛 xx

Also your mum rocks for using the word strumpet haha! I love your mum! what a woman x

Or during a slow wank

Yeh during a slow wank would be great. Twats.

They seem lovely!

They are such sad cows on that reddit site. Worse than chavvy teenagers.

@LyingWitchInTheWardrobe I agree

You are awesome, OP and so is your Mum - kudos to her for texting him! it sounds like you are being well cared for by Mummy Marple! 😊

@StepBackNow it’s a bit bizarre isn’t it...a forum to talk about a forum 😂

Amazingly strong, good luck with the start of your future

Like the kids rejected by the cool kids in school who form their own bitter little gang.

Wait, there's a forum of people who read Mumsnet threads then take the piss or try to work out if they're trolls? So literally no useful purpose whatsoever?

Yes and they're not random blokes or anything, they are ex MNers who have been banned or just left.