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DH dressing up as a dog!

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Number1Mummy · 12/09/2018 12:29

Hi Girls

I've found myself in a bit of a pickle and I don't know what to do. My story is a little unusual, so please be patient with me. About 6 months ago, I started to become suspicious that DH was bringing another woman in to our home when I'm at work (he works from home and was being quite distant at the time). I decided to install small hidden cameras around the house to see if I could catch him out. I know I should have just come out and asked him, but I didnt think he would tell me the truth. Well, after about a month of checking the footage back each day, I couldn't actually find any evidence of DH doing anything particularly interesting. I really felt relieved, but guilty that I'd been watching him. I should have just pulled out the cameras there and then, but I decided to keep watching the footage back each day. About halfway in to the second month I saw something I really wasnt expecting and I still don't know how to take it. Basicly I saw DH go in to a cupboard and pull out some kind of back pack. From the back pack he took out what appears to be a dog suit and put it on. I honestly dont know how to say this without sounding stupid, but about onece, maybe twice a week DH has been dressing up like a dog and running around the house pretending to be a dog!

I honestly almost wish he had just been having an affair as I would have at least known how to deal with that. It doesnt appear to be anything sexual, but his behavior is just so strange! running aorund the house on all fours with his tongue hanging out. Even pretending to bark as mail comes through the door. I tried to find his costume to confront him about his behavior, but when I looked in the cupboard it was gone! Worst of all, I can't reveal to him how I know what he's been doing because I've been filming him in secret, which makes me seem like a stalker!

Do any of you have any advice, I don't want DH to think I'm crazy, but he's running around our home pretending to be a dog and we have 2 children together. Again, I don't think it's anything sexual, but it's sertainly not normal.

What should i do!?!?

OP posts:
Easynow · 13/09/2018 22:18

Get him a Rover ticket & LTB

Urbanbeetler · 13/09/2018 22:20

Don’t lurched around wondering what to do - hound him out the house. Poodle his staff in a bag and leave it outside.

butterflysugarbaby · 13/09/2018 22:47

Caught MY DH dressing up as a horse earlier today. Sad

Pretty good outfit, but I could tell it was him. He looked startled when I caught him with the camera.

DH dressing up as a dog!
Easynow · 13/09/2018 23:27

butterflysugarbaby

Neigh way. Silly foal that he is.

subspace · 14/09/2018 00:13

@twilight gutted for you hun Sad I always thought he was a decent stable bloke.

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