So I went on second dates with both of my irons who I ended up in a complete dilemma with last weekend.... (can't remember what I called them both now).
Date 1: Mr Shy. 2nd date went well, bit older than me (3yrs), still quite shy around me and maybe lacking in self esteem slightly? Had a great date, stayed late again - chatted for hours. Long term better prospect for a relationship, we're both single parents. The only niggle i have is we haven't talked a lot over the weekend but he had kids at weekend and it was footy yesterday. Still early days, this one is a slow burner - defo lots of chemistry. He has not dated for a very long time & said he wants to take things slowly which I'm fine with. I think he may have been single too long though...... 😒
Date 2: MrSexyEyes. 😂🤣 2nd date went well too 🙈 spent the afternoon together - has a quick drink at pub then went for a walk along the river which was amazing, gorgeous day yesterday. He also brought me some food - we were having a conversation earlier in the week about what our favourite food is and if we could have one last meal what would it be, anyway, he went to a shop especially for me and had these things made, A* for effort there and thought it was a lovely touch. I am not sure whether he is a long term prospect as there is a bit of an age gap (younger) but he is making far more effort at the moment compared to date one. He is sincere and great to hang out with - stress free & chilled. Plus, very gorgeous🙈
🙈 so now 2 dates in and still struggling to make a choice between the two. Still no red flags, both have equally lovely qualities and both very genuine. Arrrgh, this is such a nightmare.
This is not what is supposed to happen.