The truth about my marriage that nobody knows

[Nokirstynophil]

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Mine? My husband brings in less than 15% of our joint income and this has been the case for around five years (before that it was max 35% and has slowly declined)

We cover this up so well that I don't think anybody, even those close to us, would guess.

He is self employed.
I don't want this to go on any more and am looking at ending it.

What's yours?

housewifeoflittleitaly

My secret is that I don’t respect my husband in anyway and it’s destroying our marriage. It’s happened over time, he’s gambled everything we had secretly, when I found out he wanted a chance to prove he would change. Has he....... nope not one bit he’s still a selfish prick. The real secret is that after years of wanting to leave I’ve finally bought a house for myself and the kids (it’s tiny but it’s better than being here supporting a cocklodger) and he knows nothing about it. Once the house is ready I’ll pack up and leave him to it.

Are you in the UK? If you are, you have shot yourself in the foot.

He’s likely entitled to half that property you have purchased.