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Feeling positive about the future after DH died

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Chasingsquirrels · 25/05/2018 16:07

Just starting off before we hit 1000 on the last thread...

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84CharingCrossRoad · 05/08/2018 15:52

Very hot here again. Just gave Bumble a bath and am now watching Chelsea currently losing to Man City in the Community Shield!

Horsemad · 05/08/2018 20:51

Still hot here and no breeze at all Sad

Willow2017 · 05/08/2018 20:52

Evening all.

Well they cant chuck.us out apparently will call homelesd guy tomorrow bet he isnt there he never is! And letting agents. Apparentky they have to give me a month before they start legsl stuff. Not ideal but cant help it. I am not paying the private rents its too much for too little.

work.just constant people still eating after closing time but we are supposed to serve until 15 mins before then! Its ok for bosses saying that they dont have the damm place to clean as well!

Horse sounds like a good idea you dont want stick with the world's most uncomfy loo😁

I am sure the place is sparkling Mrsj stop now!

Hope you had a nice time with family and you are having a rest this evening Book.

Willow2017 · 05/08/2018 20:53

Omg typos!

Blooming hot here too we were melting at work!

Willow2017 · 06/08/2018 10:27

Morning aĺl.
Well its DDay tomorrow! Have tried calling housing officer but he is in a meeting so will call me back. Not sure if i need to call letting agents or not (the are pretty useless so probably dont even realise its tomorrow 😀) Will see what he says. Going to take stuff to skip today and more packing. Need to get more boxes though. Might just go to argos i think they have them instead of waiting for delivery. Must check. Need more bubble wrap too. Friend has huge roll at work and said to help myself but they are moving too and it doesnt go as far as you think!

Hot but breezy here this morning which will be good for lugging things to skip😀

Have a good day folks.

Chasingsquirrels · 06/08/2018 11:29

Hope you get sorted with boxes and bubble wrap willow x

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MrsJonesAndMe · 06/08/2018 11:31

Hey Willow Good luck for the day and fingers crossed that man calls back and has some news. Angry on your behalf that you're in this situation.

The problem is that nothing stays sparkly for more than a minute, but I will just be doing day to day stuff now. We've been to the park before it gets too hot and this afternoon will be paddling pool once the sun has gone over so they don't burn.

Hope you're all having a good Monday! x

bookbook · 06/08/2018 15:26

Afternoon all
ah Willow - its so tough, and so unfair too . Hope you are keeping positive, as hard as it is ((hugs))
Horse - yep, and its still hot today - though its getting cooler a bit towards the weekend
wedding weekend break coming up for us , so it's fingers crossed we don't get rained on.
MrsJ - well, at least you know its been cleaned, which is half the battle!
I have been pottering around today - I've made soup, done some housework , and ironed . Then in a slight panic I checked over everything I am taking down at the weekend to make sure its all clean, tidy and wearable Grin .
Just having a sit down and a coffee before going out to do the inevitable watering at the allotment. Then a sit and a bit of relaxing crafting for the rest of the day .
I am popping through to DD's tomorrow morning , as she has an appointment , so looking after DGS for an hour. Will make it into a trip to the supermarket on the way home.
Hope you are all having a good one

Willow2017 · 06/08/2018 21:01

Evening all.
Two trips to skip, a bit of a lump in the throat when I decided I really had to bite the bullet and get rid of mums 2 'Singer' sewing machines. They dont fetch any money these days and they have sat unused for so long they probably dont work any more anyway. I could hear my mum saying "Just get rid of them you numpty what use are they to you? You have the memories of using them with me you don't actually need them" Got more stuff out garage for charity shop, tools etc I am sure someone may want. Bit more space in garage now!

Paddling pool sounds lovely in this weather MrsJ would love a go in it Smile was going to get a big blow up pool for kids this summer but wasnt worth it as we wouldnt have been able to take it how on earth do you dry out one of those things?

Went shopping with ds2 and for coffee, got a plant to replace my raggy pansies and some buble wrap and tape in Homebase. Didnt get the boxes, how much Argos? Will order online after all Grin
Had to make a surprise visit to Boots, got the hint of something I havent had for many a month this morning!!!! Of course I have just thrown out packets and packets of them when I cleared out my wardrobe how blooming typical eh? (bet it comes to absolutely nothing just to tease me)

No phone call before we left either time waitied till lunchtime! Couldnt check this afternoon as apparently 1471 isnt working at the minute! 2 houses I applied for are 'closed' so I dont know if that means they are not taking any more bids and are considering who to give them to or what. Fingers crossed.

MrsJonesAndMe · 06/08/2018 21:12

Sending you a big (((hug))) Willow You really don't need a period now!

Rain forecast on Saturday book grrr!

Willow2017 · 06/08/2018 22:21

Thanks MrsJ just life taking the p again Grin

Chasingsquirrels · 07/08/2018 07:07

Fingers crossed on the closed houses willow x

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bookbook · 07/08/2018 07:54

Morning
already warm here, doors and windows wide open.
Willow - thinking of you today, with all positive thoughts and fingers crossed in the hope something sorts itself out soonest . Grrr at body being annoying too, on top of everything else.
I was busy last night finishing off another WH square.
This morning , have a load of washing in - want to get it hung out before I go to DD's , and a bit of housework too .
Have good day everyone

Chasingsquirrels · 07/08/2018 08:16

Warm here as well book, but given it's a Greek Island in August that's hardly surprising 🤣🤣. Warm at home at too apparently, my dad is watering my hens and my plants.

Eating far too much, mainly of the pastry variety at breakfast! Will be doing a few very low calorie days when I get home to sort that.

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bookbook · 07/08/2018 08:27

hah Chasing - Greek Island in August definitely = hot, hot !
Its a mere 22º at the moment but heading upwards. Watering is a real chore . I am having to water tomatoes 3 times a day at the moment.

Willow2017 · 07/08/2018 10:23

Morning.

Didnt sleep so slept in! Postie left note to say they left large letter under next doies bbq for me but i can't find it! Why not lwave it in my wood shed? Must be new postie. Large letter sounds either good news or ominous!

Sunny but has been raining a bit earlier.
Off to look again maybe its inside bbq?

Pastries for breakfast sound good Squirrels Enjoy it😉

Enjoy the time with dgs Book.

Willow2017 · 07/08/2018 11:27

Finally found letter. Its ds1's exam results. I cant make head nor tail of it but will maybe will look online to see how to decipher them. Some ate letters some numbers! He seems ok with them although he didnt study the pages at all😐 he still seems under the illusion that only drama matters. Arghh.

Chasingsquirrels · 07/08/2018 12:52

Hope you can make sense of it Willow, where was it hidden?

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Willow2017 · 07/08/2018 13:01

In one of the cupboards silly me. But its a huge bbq😀😀 must try catch them and tell them just to leave in woodshed in future.

Willow2017 · 07/08/2018 14:47

Have spoken to housing officer and he said to do nothing and just sit tight. If I get a letter re court then to let him know and I will get temp housing before it happens (I hate to think!)

Done some more packing, books and ornaments. I have managed to put some books for the charity shop but I have so many I am not getting rid of Grin I love my collection.

Need to get ready for work shortly, boooo. Still roasting hot here am melting its gonna be another hellish day at work!
Told kids they are responsible for their own washing from now on and finally got ds1 to bring it down and put in the washer (I have reminded him how to use it first so no excuses, ha ha)

MrsJonesAndMe · 07/08/2018 14:53

Ah Willow Hope you know how to make sense of the results now. Sit tight is not very helpful Sad hope you have an easy shift!

MrsJonesAndMe · 08/08/2018 08:15

Morning all. They're en route from the airport Smile. Will catch up with you all tonight.

(((hugs))) for those who needs them and enjoy Rome 84 not sure exactly when you go!
x

Horsemad · 08/08/2018 08:36

Ooh, exciting MrsJ! 😁😁😁

How long since you saw them?

Willow, hope you get some house news soon, must be unsettling for you 🙁
What are your DS1's plans now he's got his exam results?

book, it's a fair bit cooler here today, yippeeee! Is it this weekend you have the wedding? The forecast is for cooler weather & I for one am looking forward to it! Wink

bookbook · 08/08/2018 09:15

Morning!
yes, lovely and cooler this morning Horse - a day for getting on with stuff. And yes, its this weekend, the wedding , so more acceptable for standing around!
MrsJ - aw lovely - have a wonderful time with your folks
Willow - grr at housing officer - easy for him to say, not so easy for you to do . Chin up, and keep on with badgering them .
Right, I am off to do some work at the allotment - not just watering :)
Have a great day everyone

Willow2017 · 08/08/2018 09:37

Morning all.
Well LL know now😀 he came round half an hour ago to ask if i wanted him to move his cars out the way..for the lorry "are you moving today?" Awkward😀

Oh well they will be straight on to letting agents no doubt.

Still waiting for call from charity to say when they are coming i suppose i could wait hours yet.

Have a lovely day MrsJ bet you are beyond excitement 😀

Dont work too hard Book

Horse same as before...none! I despair.