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What the hell just happened ?

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LemonPomPom · 22/04/2018 15:38

Earlier I was pulling up to the house with the DC when the speaker on the car really kicked in-we heard "you know I love you too darling" it was DHs voice and his Bluetooth must've somehow connected to the car. The kids all freaked out and when we came into the house he looked really flustered.

The DC went out to the garden -I confronted him and asked who the hell he'd be declaring his love for and he said he was on a group call with a friend and his friends who are staying with him from overseas and they were discussing relationships ? WTF discusses that on a conference call with people they've never met before?

I snatched DHs phone out of his hand and asked him what the Pin code was as an innocent person wouldn't mind showing their phone history and if I didn't get it we were over for good. We struggled and I was pushed to the floor and have what looks like the start of a black eye. I've locked myself in the bathroom with my phone and am ignoring all pleas to discuss the matter

I'm not going to go into too much detail but dh was caught out sexting 2 women 3 years ago. Swore he'd never do it again- yaddah-yaddah- Sad

I feel like such an idiot.

OP posts:
stayanotherday · 23/04/2018 00:22

You sound great Lemon. I wonder what his family, friends and colleagues will think of him no you've split up? Not that it's your problem but it won't do much for his public image then.

Beelzebop · 23/04/2018 01:58

My speaker only plays the other person, not me.

Greenyogagirl · 23/04/2018 02:14

My dads car picks up his and my mums phone, if Mum is speaking on her phone and dad comes home he can hear her

daftyburd · 23/04/2018 03:10

I use my mum’s car often and my phone is connected to it. She once heard me on a conversation as she pulled up. Dull stuff as I was complaining to council about the bins in my street not being emptied but she only heard me. The guy at the call centre had a lovely accent and was a real sweetheart on the phone but my mum hadn’t heard him. Maybe because she only caught the tail end of the call?
OP you don’t sound stupid you actually sound very organised and together. He’s the fool for ruining everything. I’m on here at this stupid hour because I can’t sleep over a total prick. I hope you are having a good sleep and have a clear head in the morning x

flubdub · 23/04/2018 17:36

How are you feeling today? Thanks

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