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New partner going on holiday with ex..

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nightowll · 02/04/2018 13:47

I’ve been seeing new partner just over 2 months, he’s been single just over 3 months so we started dating not long after him and his ex split. She ended things and he seems absolutely fine about it doesn’t want to get back with her etc.

Today he’s told me him and his ex and their dd are planning on booking a holiday abroad together. I’ve never met his dd and he’s already said it would be a long time before he introduced us both.

Would anyone else feel really uncomfortable about this? I know they haven’t been split long but surely it would be confusing for their child too.

OP posts:
Butterymuffin · 02/04/2018 20:04

Being single for a while sounds like good advice all round..

AnyFucker · 02/04/2018 20:17

I'm off to watch paint dry

Mojo29 · 24/10/2018 18:32

Hi could you tell me how this worked out! I’m having same issue and been with my BF for 3 years but his ex insists on holidays for DS. She refuses allow him to take him on his own or with me and my kids. It’s splitting us up.

Frankswife87 · 24/10/2018 19:06

Mojo29 start your own thread! It's quite easy 😊

1sunflower · 27/10/2018 09:41

Just walk away while you can.... I'm in a relationship with someone that has been married and he has a child with his ex , we also have a 1 year old daughter together and everything was perfectly fine, but now he does act different towards our daughter than he does to his son, he spends more time with him thruput the week, and he never does with our daughter. He actually sees her 5 min in the morning before work and 10min after work in the evening but he's to tired apparently. On Sunday I went to get my hair done and left our dd with DP and his son and he stared calling me to hurry up as he wants to spend time with his son and our dd is interrupting. I regret getting into a relationship with a man who already has had a kid and ex wife as they will always be more important than us...

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