Active discussions

Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Talk
Relationships

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

Original poster

GLAM & FAB TOUR - MEMBERS MEETING POINT!!!

998 replies

Ifonlyhewould · 09/05/2007 12:32

Hi Ladies

Hope you don't mind, ive started this thread to save hijacking the thread of others.

I thought we could use it to attract attention of the other members if needed or whatever

OP posts:
mylittlestar · 24/05/2007 14:27

I think I'm getting to the kicking arse stage myself tbh!!

Sick to death of it all. I can't do ANY more!!

I think I need to have a big night out with the girls and find myself someone who is gonna start to look after me. Time for my meltdown I think!

lou33 · 24/05/2007 14:28

come out with me!

mylittlestar · 24/05/2007 14:28

osj I asked him to leave and go to his parents but he's been coming home every night and I haven't argued.

That in itself is a positive though because at least he knows that we have absolutely no chance if he runs away and hides at his parents again...

mylittlestar · 24/05/2007 14:29

lou just name the date!!

lou33 · 24/05/2007 14:29

i'm not exactly booked up right now lol

mylittlestar · 24/05/2007 14:31

ok see you tonight then

ohsmellyjelly · 24/05/2007 14:32

Message withdrawn

mylittlestar · 24/05/2007 14:34

Of course!

Not sure where we all are - so how about we all head to the nearest airport and meet in... say... Barcelona at 7pm??

melminx · 24/05/2007 14:35

mls starting to feel the same way @ some one who deserves me. But staring to think they are all the same. Girls night out sounds just the ticket go have fun!

osj men do like to bury their heads mine thinks his done nothing wrong his texting me now and im trying to stay caslm but his really starting to wind me up.

Some of his texts come accross like this is a permanent splitothers dont. Starting to feel like a) he wants his cake and eat it b)he wont give up on us till something else comes along!

dcs are asleep so i have time to sit and ponder and send brain into overdrive!

melminx · 24/05/2007 14:37

wheres that passport??

ohsmellyjelly · 24/05/2007 14:37

Message withdrawn

melminx · 24/05/2007 14:45

he had his 2 years back and we was almost over it when i found out he'd been texting a trog he was working for ( a complete fag ash lil with only 1 front tooth!) he said it was a piss take and his brother and dad was texting her too

i do believe nothing happened but it brought back all the pain and the mis trust and we have been pretty much fighting for past few months over it. Then he got talking to a girl ( said she's a lesbian) and again after speaking to her i was ok ish about it but turns out she is into anyone and was a bunny boiler so he told her to get lost. But im having trouble trusting him we have a fight he either stays out all night or moves out!
His abuilder so there is always women about and im trying my best to trust and put my insecurities to rest but not easy and i think his being an arse about it and not understaning or supportive enough. He really doesnt get the pain he caused. And i dont know how we go about things anymore. I dont know how to make us work anymore.

ohsmellyjelly · 24/05/2007 14:48

Message withdrawn

Original poster
Ifonlyhewould · 24/05/2007 14:50

Hi girls

Just popped in to say 'hello' and that although there's nothing i can say or do to make things better for any of you, i am thinking of you xx

You could always join me and Tanee with a little diversion. We are talking compost bins stop thinking about one kind of worm and start thinking about another!

OP posts:
lou33 · 24/05/2007 14:51

what time mls?

melminx · 24/05/2007 14:56

his learnt from his dad the running away and burying his head from his mum which is where his run off too. Funny thing is he hates his mum and she hasnt a maternal bone in her body. My dd whos 11 next week said she looks like a walking corpse!! The woman starves herself to be a size 6.Very messed up family. I think he is messed up because of the childhood he had. Its not an excuse though.

Its the sitting and waiting thats doing my head in. Best mates in florida at the mo and mum is at work till monday and tuesday she flies to dublin for a week! And im left with the kids while he roams free!

melminx · 24/05/2007 14:57

wow im having a moan sorry all xx

ohsmellyjelly · 24/05/2007 14:59

Message withdrawn

mylittlestar · 24/05/2007 15:00

IOHW am at you having a life, and am tempted to come over and talk compost bins and chainsaws.... I'm afraid I need a bit of time first to bash my dh on the head and find a gorgeous new man... but I'll be there eventually

lou - lets make it 7.30. Wouldn't want to go out too early...

mel i wish I had something constructive to say. The thing is that they have the ability to cause all this hurt and upset, but not the ability to give us the support they need to in order to put things right.
They're all bloody lucky they have the chance to still be with us. So why the hell can't they be grateful for that and put their heart and soul into making us happy again...

melminx · 24/05/2007 15:00

And god help any man that comes a knocking!!

mylittlestar · 24/05/2007 15:01

FAGOT house is a winner!

melminx · 24/05/2007 15:02

mls cos they are too busy putting their head up their bums!!!

melminx · 24/05/2007 15:02

mls cos they are too busy putting their head up their bums!!!

melminx · 24/05/2007 15:02

oooh twice 1 for mine 1 for mls dh!!

melminx · 24/05/2007 15:06

doesnt it just make you want to scream and rip your hair out?? Im finding it so frustrating. They want to be with us but they are either too thick or too stubborn to sort it out and make it happen. Well next week is half term and i am going to make sure car is filled up and take kids somewhere nice for days out here and there just get in car and drive..................